Hello, my beautiful people. I'm joining @galenkp's initiative for the weekend. I love this question and decided to expand on the topic. What event in your life would you say had the most profound effect on how you? Explain.
I really loved this question. Because it immediately brought to mind a very significant event in my life, one that had a huge impact on my life. That event was becoming a single mother, and without help from my daughter's father, I was able to move forward. That event marked a before and after in my life. I had to be resilient in order to move forward and leave behind many of the things I had set as goals, but my life took a 360-degree turn.
It wasn't easy to leave behind my medical studies. Before getting pregnant, I had set a goal of graduating. This wasn't the case. Becoming a mother meant I had to dedicate myself to my daughter and postpone my plans. Because of all the aforementioned reasons, I had to create a plan B where my daughter came first. I had to stop studying and get a job. I was able to work during the first few months of pregnancy. By the seventh month, I had to stop working and started working from home. I made yogurt in different flavors and had a large clientele. I returned to my mother's house and there I had help from my sisters and, of course, my mother.
I became a resilient being because my attention was focused on my daughter, and I couldn't return to my studies. I went through many difficulties, hardships, falling and getting up, shaking myself off, and continuing to struggle. Most importantly, I managed to move forward. It wasn't easy, but I did it. Many years have passed since that event that radically changed my life. I love my daughter above all else; she values me as a mother; we are very close. It was worth it; I have a before and after image of her birth.
Oh sis you have done well for yourself and your child not minding what people will say about you at that stage of life is not easy at all you will live to enjoy fruit of your labor
Thank you for commenting, even though I left many things behind. I managed to move forward with my daughter. I struggled a lot, but it was right and necessary to turn my life around to move forward with my daughter. Greetings