Greetings friends of WEEKEND EXPERIENCES, I hope you are enjoying a wonderful weekend, here is my participation this week, my chosen topic is:
How do you prepare for adversity, trouble and situations that may have a negative impact on you and your life? Use your own photos.
Wow, Preparing for adversity is not something you can think or say so easily, this is a skill that we develop in those difficult moments and that becomes very valuable and allows us to face the challenging moments of our lives with greater strength, perhaps a few years ago I would not have known how to answer this question, but today I can give you some advice since throughout my life I have been through so many difficult situations that it is even difficult for me to think how I did at the time to overcome them?
Let's be positive in difficult situations: I think that one of the attitudes that you should have the most in difficult times is to be positive or see the positive side of each complicated situation. It is not as easy as it is said, but with effort it can be achieved. 💪
Surround yourself with good people who can help you with your problems: when you are faced with problems or difficulties in your life, the best thing you can do is accept them, never deny them or hide them, this will not achieve anything good or positive, the best thing is to seek help from someone you trust, be it a family member or a friend, and tell them what is distressing you so much.
Luckily, I have my sisters 🥰, one of them lives here in my country, the other went to look for a better quality of life in another country, and despite the distance or daily routine, whenever I have very difficult situations in my life and I can no longer solve them by myself, they help me find solutions, I tell them my problem and they make me understand and solve them quickly, apart from my sisters I also have some friends and it is incredible but they have also helped me solve problems that have arisen in my life.
Let's make an effort to adapt to every difficult situation: how can we achieve this? Well I'll tell you, the best thing is to look for a solution and always be willing to learn new things, I can give you many examples of this, due to lack of money and a good job I had to learn masonry, ha ha, I never thought I could do this type of work and up to now in my home I have put it into practice on many occasions, I have managed to make cement closets, some small floors, glue flagstone on the walls, among other things, and this gives me great satisfaction, because if I had not looked for a way to learn these trades my home would be falling apart.
Another solution to your problems is to adopt a kitten, ha ha, it seems like a joke but it is a good solution, if you are alone the cat will be great company, if you are bored I assure you that with the cat you will get entertainment, if you do not have anyone to give love to the cat will be there waiting for you to give it all to him. 🐈⬛
And as they say: “When times are bad, put on a good face” or “every cloud has a silver lining”! So the best of all is that for every experience or difficulty that comes our way in life we can see it as an opportunity to grow, learn and develop new skills to better deal with things. ❤️
The photos shared here are my property taken with my iPhone 11 phone
