I'd say you're both.
Charming for cruising away your youthful year's, getting to know your environment and learning to be the individual that you turned out to be.
The other side. 😂😂🤣😂 The fruit and vegetable store without money in your pocket is not a good one.
My mum would have brought me home after paying for what I took in the store and spanked the hell out of me.
I was on the receiving end of many a spanking; Many. I don't regret any of them though as each taught me a lesson and allowed me to edge a little closer to my best self. These days, that ethos of continually improving is still with me, I don't get spanked anymore though. 😀
At first, when I started receiving spanking,I thought she was being wicked on me but later,I realised they were to make me a better person. And for that, I am appreciative.