Hello @vickoly
I read your entire post, friend. You have narrated two stories from your life in this post, but I would not like to comment on them because I do not think it is right.
I hope that your relationship journey goes very well now. Remember how many things God takes away from us because they are not worthy of us. I myself am a witness to this.
I guess that's another angle to look at the situation from, thanks so much for your kind words.