This is my response to "Weekend-Engagement Topic 75: The Weekend Week." You can also join the challenge here.
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Topic:
Have you ever had a weekend you'd rather forget? Explain what happened, why it was so bad, and what the outcome was.
The azure sky promised me a beautiful morning, the splendour of which was soon ruined by an ugly experience. I have always heard how guys would keep two ladies at the same time and wondered how it would feel like. The guys would make it sound so cool as though it fuels their ego and all that but then they didn't tell me how deep this thing runs.
I have watched it in our home movies where a lady would meet another lady in a guy's house and they would just give each other horrible stares and after one leaves, the other would be crying, stating her case why she should be chosen ahead of the other and I've always felt like, "Are these ladies really for real?" You can see the truth staring at you in the face and here you are, crying that you don't want to lose him? I never knew my day would come and it was on this unlucky weekend.
It was many years ago though when I was still naive and trying to explore and show inquisitiveness to so many things. It was as far back as 2010 but I would never forget that weekend. Before I was busted though let me just give a quick background check on the ladies involved. I am not proud of it and I just want to state why it was a weekend I would never forget in my life.
I was dating Bee (for the sake of privacy, I had to change their names) and she would always come around, we would play and laugh together but coded. Only a few people knew back then. There was this street my cousin and I used to go and watch football matches and there was another lady there. Her name is Tee. They are both cool in their ways and Bee seems to be more gentle and Tee is this outspoken and energetic type. They lived in the same area but on different streets.
I noticed Tee showed interest and before I started giving her audience I mentioned Bee to her face if she knew anyone like that. She admitted she knew who she was but they don't talk. She spoke about her with a bit of disdain so I felt I struck gold since they are not on talking terms, there is no way they would know I am dating both of them. I always give them different arrival times as I would tell one that I wasn't around and then tell the other when to come. They never met though and it went on for 2 months I guess.
As God would have it, there was a mutual friend between them and that was the one dating my cousin and she kind of reconciled both together and that was where my weekend got bad. As new friends would want to brag and share stuff about each other, I believe they both mentioned me that I am the boyfriend and they planned to visit me on a weekend after I was so exhausted from work. They came very early on Saturday. When I heard the knock, I thought it was my cousin since we stayed together and when I opened it, it was my cousin's girlfriend that first came in and I left the door for her and smiled.
I was lying on the couch when I saw two other familiar faces enter and it was three against one. If I had superpowers I would rip the ground open and escape in it. They sat down, formed a circle with me being at the center and the sleep on my face cleared up instantly but I was acting as though I was still sleepy. They "worded" me. When you "word" someone in Nigeria it means they insulted my life and generation. I couldn't utter a word... I was just seated there, head hanging, buried down in shame. I couldn't even look up to any of them speaking.
They shifted their abuse from me to my cousin because they felt he was older and should have told me off and even his girlfriend said she was disappointed in him but he wasn't there to receive his insult and it was just me... Of course, I brought it upon myself and I was just praying for them to leave. Finally, they did as they kept insulting me till they left. I quickly locked the door and felt so ashamed of myself.
I later reached out to both of them separately and apologized and we were cool at a distance at least before I finally started dating Bee again but I know it would never be the same again. This was one weekend I would never forget and I wish never to happen again. I never repeated that ever again either. It wasn't my best moment and if I could take it back, I would gladly have stayed with Bee, leaving Tee alone with her advances. It's never a crime for her to show interest but I should have been a gentleman and be honest about my relationship status which would have buried any interest she had. It was my fault, my mess and I still feel bad anytime I remember that day... One of the worst weekends of my life...
Thank you for your time.
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Just like a nollywood movie 😄
Too bad I was whitewashed and tongue lashed 🤣🤣🤣😂. If only they would both be pleading their case why I need to choose them hahaha. Movie deceived me.
E shock you 😄😄
E shock me o. I didn't esperrit 😂😂🤣
Nice one bro
Thank you.
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