๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ค๐๐ง๐, @๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ค๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ฅ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ-๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐๐ก ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ข๐ซ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ง๐. ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ช๐ฎ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ. ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐ญ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ง๐จ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ โ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐.
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ธ ๐ช๐ป๐ฎ ๐๐ธ๐พ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ต๐ธ๐พ๐ผ ๐ธ๐ฏ (๐ฒ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ท๐๐ธ๐ท๐ฎ)? ๐ฆ๐ฑ๐, ๐ช๐ท๐ญ ๐ฑ๐ธ๐ ๐ญ๐ธ ๐๐ธ๐พ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ต ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ผ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ต๐ธ๐พ๐ผ๐ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฝ๐ผ ๐๐ธ๐พ๐ป ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฎ?
Someone said that envy comes first before it turns to jealousy. At least you can envy someone else's lifestyle or doings, but when it becomes something you are trying to threaten them with or doing anything evil to them, it turns to jealousy.
Even though it is common and normal to be jealous of someone, we need to be careful so we don't get carried away to start looking for ways to bring them down.
There is someone I get jealous of many times as the person is so close to me. This act makes me want to do better and upgrade myself too, but I would blame my environment and upbringing too.
Who will ever believe this lady here is my immediate younger sister? Her lifestyle is so upgraded that I still look at myself and want to step up more like her. My sister here lived a good life. I wouldn't want to oppose the idea that I also lived a good life but hers was different because of the kind of environment she lived in that was richer and better than mine.
While she was in Secondary School, she was opportune to live with a rich and educated Aunt of ours (living in the US now) who had given her the best life she ever love. For me, I lived with my parent, and the kind of environment we stayed in contributed negatively to my lifestyle right now, I am still not up to the life she had lived and have grown a lot of personalities around her that makes her living more tush than mine.
I got to understand that there is a big gap with living with educated and uneducated people. Also, your environment and the people around you say a lot about you. My sister has a wonderful connection that has given her so many opportunities while I am still struggling to even hone my lifestyle and live a fashionista life just like my sister.
My sister is an extrovert, I mean an extreme one while I am an introvert and it was all caused by my parents when they didn't allow me to explore areas I could have just because of their mentality in them as uneducated people.
My life as an extreme introvert was due to how I was brought up and till today, it is so affecting my lifestyle. I am trying to change that so I could also be connected to great people just like my sister who has been given such an opportunity by my Aunt right from the onset.
Thanks for your time
I totally understand how it can be to have a sibling that is doing a lot better than you in some areas especially when you are older than them, lolz. But what I say to encourage myself is, after all she is my sister or my friend or my brother or whoever. I always try to be closer to people I know I might be jealous of and just keep learning to be better.
Truly staying with people that are educated and uneducated, there is a very big difference, but there are some who are still fortunate in any environment because they don't feel to emotional, I'm sure you are a very emotional person and that was why you had to even stay back with your parents.
It's all well, I'm sure everything will fall in place soon enough.
Yes.... One thing that makes me happy is that she is my sibling and we do rock and roll well. Many times, she gives me advice on what to wear and what to do and I appreciate that she is part of me.
Yea, I am so emotional being ๐ ๐
Though, in all, I still give thanks to God and I am trying to upgrade more so people won't take me as being too religious ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Thanks dear for reading and dropping such beautiful comment. โฅ๏ธ
Yes that's just the best ๐ฅฐ.
I know you are, it's all over you, hehe. Just keep being better and everything will be fine ๐.
It's always my pleasure to be here โค๏ธ.
Don't worry Princess.. Just work harder and you'll get the life you wanted.. It'll be more worth the effort to harvest the fruit of your labor than just picking a fallen fruit effortlessly.
Yea.... One of the reasons I am working and grinding hard to live the best life. May God spare our lives too to enjoy more of life's goodies.
Thanks so much, Ate ๐คฉ
I know you can achieve it !LADY
Thank you ๐
I can relate to what you wrote up there. I mean is like the similarities are much. And trust me it's not bad the way you feel, I know that feeling.
Although I don't see myselfjealous of my junior brother, ofcourse if he's wining I'm also wining. That's just how we roll. But dude at a tender age is more financially stable than I. Actually he made his first million in earlier than I am to make. And also he didn't grow with us, he was so stubborn dad had to send him to an uncle that was where his greatness started.
But one thing I always know is that all hands might be of the same shape but they're not equal. And where a speedster gets to first a man that's walking will also get there. Maybe later but definitely he'll get there.
Keep up the good work. You're doing great. ๐๐
๐ ๐ ๐ I can understand that part of him. He was sent to someone who will handle him well.
One thing we should be happy of is that they are part of us and we can easily roll with them too. It's nothing to be sad about because that isn't the best.
Thanks so much for your encouraging words.
Awww, trust me things will fall in place, start by changing your environment and circle of friends too, and hang often with people.
You are right.... Changing of environment is something I am looking forward to and I hope they answer us with this NYSC service because that will be the first step for me now.
Thanks so much ๐ค
It can be said as a good start to test someone with jealousy and difficult conditions, many lessons that are an important part to have. :)
Yes.... You are right. One would definitely learn too.
The way we are living now is the way we are brought up
When I was little mom don't always always us to mingle with kids around
And that is the way am living my life now because the effects of how I was trained is reflecting on my life now
So I believe your sister is like that because of how she was brought up and you are also that way because of the training you got while growing up
You are an adult now so you can choose to change that if you want but I believe you know that will take a lot of time and effort because it's part of your lifestyle and to get it out you will need to work on it.
It will definitely take a lot of effort and I must be willing to change too if I want. This has been caused by the upbringing we had while growing up and already part of us.
So, just as you have said, it's all my choice to live the life I want.
Thanks so much, Sis โฅ๏ธ
My oh my, are you guys all beautiful in your family? I never would have guessed she is your sister though, let alone a younger one.
Of course, environment plays quite a big role in influencing the type of person we become, and that is usually the case with many people. However, I believe you every influence on one is does not go without consent from them.
I know a few of my friends who grew up in not amazing places, but they do now look and act like it. And there are some of them that do not behave in any manner that reflect the good environment they grew up in.
At the end of the day, you decide who want to become. And I am sure there are many attributes about you that your sister emulates. I am sure she would admire your strong will and hardworking spirit.
People still do not believe she is my younger sister ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ but I leave them to keep doubting if dem no believe.
Environment really contributes to one's lifestyle and in the end, it's our choice to live the life we want but in moderation, you know?
Yes, my sister always admires my resilience spirit and how hard working I am. She will always be proud of me too because she is really enjoying from my online hustle. At least I am happy with that too.
Thanks so much for your beautiful comment, @olujay ๐
I love that you both really admire each other. That's great sister love between you guys.
Have you considered bringing her on Hive?
Hehehe... My sister is a business freak. She doesn't have time for Blogging. She was once on Steemit some years back as she brought me onboard then. Ever since she stopped, she doesn't have time for it but will keep pushing me to keep going while she spends my money ๐ ๐ ๐
Your sister had different opportunities than you, that makes a difference, the environment where you live influences you a lot, it will cost you a little more to get ahead, but that doesn't mean you can't achieve it.
Yes, it will cost me something and I believe I will achieve it too with my hard work. Thanks so much ๐ค
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Wow your younger sister๐ฅบshe looks beautiful just like you and I must say they are lot of pretty people in your family. Life happens and some people tend to get better opportunities than we do,they succeed fast and life brings them good things but if we do want same,then we plan in achieving it and works for it and the happiness of life will sure come to us too. All I have learn since I have been in life is,everybody have their own specific time for greatness,some fast and some slow. You are going places princess because you are an hardworking person.
Excellently said my friend. We all are meant to be great in different ways and that shouldn't make us look less on ourselves because the time to be successful will definitely come. Thanks so much for such a beautiful comment.
I think you don't envy your sister but the opportunities she had and you didn't, at some point it seemed to me that you admired her.
But if you are sure that what you feel is envy, I hope it will soon turn into motivation to be better.
Maybe life was harder for you, because you are stronger than she is, think about that. @princessbusayo ๐
A great angle from you and yes, I don't need to envy but admire her and also work towards being the best in my ways.
Thanks so much for your comment and pointing it out clearly for me.
Yes, she has always been my own inspiration and I appreciate that. She is so kind too and I really appreciate your beautiful comment ๐ฅฐ๐ฅณ