"Before giving advice, it is necessary to ensure that it is accepted, or rather, that it is desired."
(Amiel, Henri Frederic)
It is not the same to give advice as to make suggestions, a simple opinion to believe that what the other person believes to be the right thing to do should be done, the gesture is appreciated but it must also be taken into account that there are people who do not always want what better for one, just as there are others who do want to but think about what they consider the best but not what makes us really feel good.
I remember in my university stage that beginning the first semester everything was going very well, I was delighted with my degree and when we went to pick up the grades of the first cohort it was the same coordinator who dared to give a talk to me and two other classmates, who suggested that we change careers immediately, because what we were studying was not in as much demand as the systems career, which had a much larger field of work and all that stuff, we were very young and we only had the desire to graduate and do our best that we can. He convinced us so my group and I changed careers.
We graduated and when I had my first interview as a professional, I don't know how to describe the desire and the desire to be that person who was sitting in front of me interviewing the applicants because that was what the career that had changed for systems was about, I was supposed to By studying human resources I would have the opportunity to practice what I really liked and I like today, but my reality was very different until today I have been a friend of computers for having made a not very wise decision.
I did not stay with that frustrated dream, so I returned for equivalencies and I no longer had one but two degrees, better late than never, when they ask me what I am a graduate of, I only name one profession because the first one is bad advice, although I admire and respect the people who are dedicated to that, I think that each person should dedicate themselves or do what they really like or with what they feel comfortable with, we must let ourselves be carried away by our own internal voice, be faithful to what we feel and always be ourselves ourselves, with authenticity and above all being sure of ourselves. With security and firmness never give up a dream to please others.
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@proymet muy de acuerdo contigo hacer lo que te gusta y realmente te haga feliz..para eso vinimos a esta vida ha ser feliz...
greetings and lots of health for you @lorenabeltran, remember that in this community they write only in English
@proymet I agree with you, you have to do what you really like and make you happy, that's why we were born to be happy... a hug
It's a bad idea take a decision for your like asking to other person, never let another person say what is the best for you.
Remember don't put in this community words in spanish, not even in your banners.
I really appreciate your observation friend, thank you very much for your support. @beaescribe
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