"Unplanned moments are always better than planned ones"
-Anonymous-
What would be the greatest mistake of one's relationship why they're failing to have it in eternal? Do you think there's infidelity? Or does either of the two lack providing each other with the needs of each part?
Here we go!
Last Sunday, I was so busy doing my paperwork. Yes, if I am not mistaken, since Saturday I was doing my stuff until Sunday. Then Sunday afternoon while I was at my table, my husband said, "Mommy, let's go somewhere". When I heard that invitation from him, I was puzzled about what was happening to him because he's not fond of inviting me to go somewhere especially if I am busy. So that time, I just stared at him and I quickly remembered what he said before, I think 3 months ago, "Mommy please don't look over too much to your work just give some time to your children and also to me". I felt guilty because he always reminded me to not be so selfish in terms of time. I know if my husband does his words, he's not making it into a joke, he will take it seriously no matter what.
Wish granted👍
The Happy faces!! Smile😊😊!
It was my first time indeed to go out with him with his co-workers, they had an invitation together with his colleagues, it was a baptism of his co-worker's child and my husband decided to bring with me there also. I don't know it might be my husband found me busy and he wanted me to be happy also and give some time to relax. That's why he brought me here.
The Simple House
This is the house where we went. You can only see the house with no other visitors, just only us and other colleagues of my husband. So, while roaming around...
WOW!
This is the only word that I've spoken during this time because I was amazed by nature the ambiance was so cool and you could hear the sounds of the chicken, the hen, the goat, and also the birds. The fantastic nature that the Philippines has. We cannot afford to barter this place to others. The amazing creation of God. How He created all these unconditionally, and how He feeds the birds since they don't have a mother or father to cook food for them.
The Plants
This is Manaw.
During the pandemic, a lot of people in quarantine times put their attention on planting flowering plants or any plant. Sometimes they find it everywhere neighborhood to get a new plant, a new variety that first time to their eyes. But this Manaw was very expensive at that time because of its leaves and layer. Everything made me realize it might be God who made everything happen with a purpose. Who would have thought that because of the pandemic, COVID-19, all people gave value to the importance and the beauty of plants? Time is sometimes really tricky and you cannot touch within the purpose of it.
The Coconut
God created all the fruit-bearing trees for us to eat fresh and full of vitamins like this coconut fruit. Its juice can satisfy our thirst just like water.
The Guyabano
One of my favorite fruits and it has antioxidants also anti-cancer.
The Banana
This is the main favorite of all the monkeys,... I am not a monkey but why do I love to eat a banana? Shall I question myself about this one? Of course, no doubt I am not a monkey, lol. Our great fathers (scientists) said we came from the genes of the monkey, all I can say is, I DON'T KNOW😊😊.
The Papaya
What I like about these fruits is that when cooking chicken meat, you can add this to the menu, which is so delicious.
Foods are ready!
The people behind cooking these foods had good hands and talents in cooking. The food was so delicious.
CEBECO II - BORBON CHAPTER
They were very hungry especially the food as I've mentioned, the food served was so delicious.
Relax
They were very busy talking and it seemed like they didn't see each other in their workplace the fact they often see themselves in their workplace. I am so happy seeing my husband happy somewhat like I gave him the privilege to go out with friends and have free time.
Me, myself and I...🤗
While they were busy chit-chatting, I on the other side, was busy climbing on a coconut tree. So much fun in this place where we roamed.
Hungry Again!!
After an hour, they got hungry and they found a chicken under the house. Yes, you're right, they killed it.
Almost there 😋
My husband did the task of cooking the native chicken. I know it's yummy because, in our house, he's the one doing the cooking task.
Native Chicken served👋
My first meal was together with the electricians because of course, I usually did this with my husband. So nice to be with them because you're strengthening the bond with other people who you don't know yet, especially about their story. While we were having our meal one of the friends of my husband's friends talked about the beauty of Bantayan and he invited us to go there and have fun and see the hidden beach and the beauty of Bantayan. Wow, this is it I am now starting to make friends because the plan for Bantayan is we need to bring into a real one.
We're going Home!
We went home late, but it was all okay! Still, we end our day with sumptuous foods. We enjoyed the rest of the day. Congratulations on the baby's christening because of her celebration, our tummy is full.
My Realization!
After the trip to a neighboring barangay, I realized it's so nice to meet new people, share my story, and hear their story. For how many years finding new people and friends, is why I realize doing it now? That's why others think that I am strict. I am hard to go with. Do I have a standard for whom people to go with? Those questions disturbed me for many years and now I answered them all. The reason is I don't often go out with new people, I am only with my closest friends, colleagues, and also family. Now, I need to make a harmonious relationship with others, my heart falls there. Amiable people made my day stress-free!
Now, I need to end up here with my writing. This is all about my weekend experience with my husband. I hope you enjoyed reading this short post.
Bye, Hivers. See you on my next blog! Spread the love and not hate♥️♥️. Big Hugs!
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom."
-Marcel Proust-
What a sweet weekend moment with your husband ma'am @redgemini ... I feel you on the guilty moment about spending so much time to work related matters even on weekends ... It is supposed to be a family time and nothing more. I am glad you yat you have an understanding husband who makes ways for you both to be together😊…
Definitely ma'am @ciadanmea .
Kalami sa tinulang manok maam, Nag enjoy gyud ka sakasaka sa Lubi bisag way Bunga.
Hahahaha lami jud kaayo @intoy.bugoy samot na laming kaayo ni. Ni try kog Saka sir kay basin mo switch kug laing job, manaka nalang kug tuba, awww.hahaha
Hahaha, kuyawan manangguete na hahaha
Ang manok jud nagdala ug bida ani ba. Haha
Lagi ai..kalami Naman lang jud
Wow. Delicious foodies. I love the soup of native chicken.hehehe. tam is kaayo nag sabaw maam..daghana ug lagutmon diha sa inyuha .kanindot naman
Yes sir . actually Dili ni sa amoa, sa gilaagan ra jud ni namo hehehe
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Thank you so much @hivebuzz
You're welcome @redgemini! Have a nice day 😊👍
Good thing you spare time to do all this. Unwinding and relaxing sometimes is necessary too especially if stress na sa mga paperworks ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ.
Yes ma'am..just a stress reliever indeed
What a nice walk, it shows that they had a great time
Exactly @sarayscristina 😂
Aguy! Kalami bas manok ma'am.
Kaayo maam.hehehe
What an adventure!! I agree with you, or with that anonymous!! Those moments that aren’t planned are the best!! What a beautiful thing to change a simple day for an experience like this one!!
I can't imagine if I said no to this invitation from my husband. That day really gave me so much joy.
Random moments indeed are the best. Kanang, lami ra ning manok?haha lamia sa sabaw ani labi na karon ting ulan.
Kalami kaayu ma'am oi..hehehe..Laming na Laming hehehe
That's such a lovely and spontaneous invite! It's been a while since my last couple trip just because my boyfriend is pretty much the same with your hubby, but you never know, haha 😆
Let me know.joke heheh. yes I think we need also to give time because really not the nature of a guy/boy to speak to much like what they want to do or whom they want to be with, like that. Good to hear your husband and mine are the same.heheeh
Ang nikatkat sa Lubi ang nagdala ug bida.🤣
Ayaw ma'am. Ni try ra jud ko unsa ang life nga naay kalubian😂😂😂
Hmmmmm😋😋😋 such food were you cook in native style are very more delicious.
Haha who got the chicken they killed, it must got a owner they cant just kill it🤠🤠 for meal. But it looks delicious thou
The owner got the chicken just my husband volunteered to cook that one..Native chicken is the best .
Ohhhh i see, you didn't give a pix of how yummy and delicious it looks after prepared,? I bet it looks and taste good