WE87 | Three People | Dilemma!

in Weekend Experiences3 years ago (edited)

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Weekend!

I hope you've all had a great weekend and made some memories along the way. I started writing this post on Friday evening when I had our home office to myself as my boyfriend was meeting with friends. But as I also found some inspiration to create Twitter content for CineTV while I was sitting here, I got distracted and stopped writing after 1,5 paragraphs. Usually, this means that I eventually miss the weekend engagement round, but I decided that I wasn't going to miss out on this one and committed myself to write the rest today and still be in time before this round closes. The reason that I didn't want to miss out on this one is actually that I'm facing a dilemma with this question that I haven't been able to figure out the right answer to when I got back to writing. I'm even curious myself how I'm going to answer it. Let's see!

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The Elimination

Oh boy if only I could make this one reality and eliminate three people from this world, I would have had a much different life and future. There's a catch though, which I didn't read the first time when I scrolled over the question.

Option three: The elimination
You have the power to completely eliminate any three people from the planet, relatives included, either from the present or the past. Who would you choose, why and how do you think their elimination would affect the future, or your future specifically.

Do you see that it mentions "relatives included"? Hmm, what now? Let me explain why that could be an issue to answer this to my satisfaction.

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My first hunch

Was simply: YES! This is the question I will answer because I have two psycho ex's and they are considered dangerous as well, so eliminating them from the planet doesn't only help me but those that were in a relationship with them before and after me as well. I can dislike people, or find them annoying and avoid them for that reason, but usually, this doesn't mean that I build a deep-seated hatred for them. Whenever people get under my skin for whatever reason that may be, nowadays this means that I will quickly start exploring how to avoid them completely and make sure that I'm not going to get annoyed/agitated by them anymore. I don't do this for them, but for myself and my own state of mind. I try not to allow people to get into my head and the easiest way is to eliminate them. Unfortunately, this is not always an option, so then I try to deal with them in a way that brings me the least amount of negative energy.

As you may know, I actually left my home country to not allow my last crazy ex to scare me and let me live in fear. I knew he was not going to change his behaviour and therefore I took matters into my own hands and left. I had to get out of the situation, and so I did, Since then, I've slowly found back myself and learned a lot about myself. But he's the one taking care of our children, and I'm not allowed to contact them whatsoever, so with that in mind, and all the hurt he has caused us all, I would eliminate him in a heartbeat! The same goes for another one in my late teen years that has caused me trauma that I now still deal with in my life many years later. Eliminate and make sure this species can't reproduce themselves anymore.

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Dilemma!

And that last sentence is exactly where my dilemma lies, as one of them is the father of my 2 oldest children and when eliminating him and all relatives, my children wouldn't be born either. I may not be in their lives, but I still wish them health and happiness. I cherish the 5 years I had with my oldest daughter and the 3 years I had with my son. I can't eliminate them.

For my other person of choice, there is no problem, I believe the few people that once were present in his family were as rotten as he was, so no dilemma there. He's one of these people that has tons of skills that not many people have but yet chooses to use them for evil instead of good.

The third person is one connected to the first one, the girl (can't call her a woman) from Child protective services back in our home country. This one, I can't even explain her methods without getting worked up again. Thankfully she's out of sight so out of mind, but boy, let me tell you she kept me busy in my mind for several years. If this is her way of working, I can safely say that many families will thank me for cancelling her from the planet.

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Solution

As I don't have a list of people that I'd love to eliminate, I decided that in the case of person 1, the family older than him will be eliminated not those that are younger. I believe that his brother and other close relatives have proven that the bloodline wasn't all that rotten as it was before they started to create their own families.

It may not be 100% fair, but if I had these powers, I could truly eliminate a lot of hurt, grief and broken families by cancelling these people. Not even to mention the traumas that are long-lasting and hunting us forever so it seems. Every time something triggers these traumas, it's like getting thrown back in time which is the last thing that I want, the future is what's important but you can't control your body's reaction at the time this happens.

When I had nothing left to lose, I would have never put my faith in the hands of the government and probably been more assertive years before I needed to. I would have learned to trust in my own ability to solve problems and think of solutions. But the most important part is that the two oldest children would have not been from this father and I would have never gotten to the point where I lost custody and landed in a total state of panic and fear for a long time in a row. Cancelling this person would have truly saved me years of hurt and grief.

But then again, maybe it's good that nobody really has these powers because this is one of these things that can be used for bad intentions and that would make the world even worse than it may be with these people in it.

And with those words, I will end my Weekend Engagement entry for this week. Have a good week ahead and thank you for reading!

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I am sorry for all pain and suffering you been through in your life, and to be treated BADLY by those who suppose to love you and cherrish you. I can't even imagine and to not seeing your kids ❤️
I can understand the thoughts and the elimination theory in your mind.
People like that deserve to take consequences of their actions and be judged by them.

For me I had a person in my Childhood Who did things not to me but People I loved, scarred them for life and had no sympathy or regret.
I hated him for years and like you I wished him gone.
But instead my love ones visited him and said they forgave him but never would forget what he did.
What I did was to wish for him to feel love and sympathy to feel pain over what he did.
THAT would be the worst punnishment.
And after that he took his own life after leaving a note that said he couldn't live with what he did.

The power of Love and forgiveness is stronger than death.
And might do Wonders in ways we never thought.

Much love to You 🤗🥰😘🤗

Yes, this was a tough one! I thought about doing another entry just for fun for the elimination post. Getting rid of psycho ex's does seem like a no-brainer until you think about one being the father of your children. It does make you glad you don't actually have the power. That would bring a big responsibility.


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