Hello, all your concerns are totally valid. At your age my mind was focused on the fact that by 30 I should be married, have a family, a car, a house and a pet.
The real question is what your heart wants. Notice that you say you are not sure if you want to have a house yet. I understand that insecurity at the moment I don't want to have a house and your concern is due to pressure from your parents. So calm down and look for what gives you peace.
As for work you already know what you want, so focus and look for that form of work and income you desire. It doesn't matter if it's not already...things take work and time. Besides, I'll let you in on a secret: It's better to be happy in the process,
Lastly, relationships... from my humble point of view... you should go out and socialize more!... I think you like being at home, but how are you going to meet girls if you don't leave the house. ... I understand the online sites that allow you to do that, but nothing compares to being able to look into another person's eyes and discover the emotions that are hidden behind a glance.
Firstly thanks for reblogging. So are you married now and have a house and all that 😅.
I don't have any certainty yet about the home. I mean I would love to own a home but I just don't think it's the right time for me as that's not cheap 😳.
You are right about the career since I roughly know what I want I should just keep pursuing that and seeing if there's any opportunities for me 😅. Ya I'm for sure happy now that I'm in Malaysia . I feel more at home then when I lived in America . I think the Asian culture suited me better.
For the relationship part it's easier said than done 😂. I told you before that I'm an introvert so yeah plus I have trust issued from when I got bullied when I was younger. It's not so easy for me to make new friends in real life. Well I feel easier to talk online then meet after the feeling seems right. Cause if it's real life I prob would be too shy i think 😂
hahahaha to make a long story short, at least I have a pet, otherwise I don't mortify myself anymore, I live life one day at a time.
Thank the universe, you were born in this technological era, which allows you to meet someone online and then be able to meet them. In my time, no technology. To socialize I have to go out on the street, go to parties, meetings, etc.
In your time 😳. Means you older than i thought . Well times changed 😂. Now students have chatgpt to do their assignments. Wish I had that 😂