I had to do that, it was my decision
Hello friends
Honestly I don't even know where to start, but maybe I'll stop here, I don't know if I'm able to finish today's post.
Another ten minutes passed in which I thought, thought, remembered and finally decided to share with you what was the most difficult thing I ever had to do, honestly, I never thought I would ever have the opportunity to talk about it.
The end of 2011, I will never forget it in my life.
Why?
After more than ten months of treatments, chemotherapy and many other interventions for my mother from a medical point of view nothing could be done, and unfortunately we had no miracle.
After all this ordeal, two days after my mother's birthday, she decided to leave for a better world.
My soul was shattered into dozens of pieces, I could hardly realize the reality, I couldn't believe that my mother was gone, you know, it was December, a month of joy, of gifts, of friendship, unfortunately for me it was a black month.
After two days of wake (as it is customary here in Romania) followed the religious funeral service which took place at our home (at that time we didn't have a special hall for such services).
And the most difficult thing I ever had to do was to see my mother in that coffin, I stood very close to the coffin without looking at my mother, I wanted to know her and remember her as she was when she was alive.
There would be much more to write about the event thread, but please forgive me, but I can't go on, and for those of you who made it to the end, thank you.
THE END!
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P.S. The attached picture you have just seen are taken by me with my mobile phone(Samsung Galaxy S21 in Croatia), and the text is also designed by me.
Yours @triplug😉
It’s certainly a really difficult thing to deal with a loss especially someone as important as a mother. I’m hopeful that you’ve been able to make progress on moving on, knowing that her impact will last the rest of your life.
When we lose someone dear to us, it is very difficult to fill that void, it depends on each of us, but it is very important to keep our loved ones who have left us forever in our memory.
Have a wonderful weekend.
I still have my mom with me, but reality reminds us what is the end of everything alive. I don't think about it, I try to enjoy her company while it lasts as long as possible because I know I will miss her when she leaves.
It's the same for me. I prefer that the last memory of a loved one not be their death. That's why I don't go to see them in the coffin either. It happened to me when my dad died.
I think it was good that you shared your experience, it helps. 👍
Thank you so much for your comment left here, and yes, we must cherish every moment spent with loved ones.
Have a wonderful weekend.