As the eldest daughter of the family, all I want for my siblings (3) is to understand and respect our parents. I am not a perfect daughter nor a perfect elder sister but I want harmony and peace in the family. I did my best to be good to my siblings and to be a good role model to them. But... Not all I want for our family happened.
My siblings and I were close when we were children. We always hang out together. Our kind of bonding is having a video karaoke. Until we were teenagers. We already had a little misunderstanding as they started having boyfriends. I don't have any problem with our brother. But I can say that my two sisters had done wrong and somehow there were times that they disrespected our parents because of their boyfriends. And it hurts me a lot. Not because I don't have a boyfriend but because they changed into persons that I can not understand the reasonings. I was late in terms of having a boyfriend as I got my first boyfriend when I was 22 years old and now he's my husband. Unlike my two sisters, I learned about them having boyfriends, especially the third one in our family. And when that happened, the situation of our family stirred into bad or I can say worst. And the one who did the most unforgivable thing to our family was our third one.
Why do I want to visit/stalk my sibling's dreams?
My brother
I want to stalk in his dreams and to know what he's planning in his life. I can say that he's focused on his studies now. He's not a vocal person as he only does things he thought is right. My brother is a hardworking person. He gave a soft spot in his heart for his siblings. Not until our third siblings had done bad to us and our parents. We're still close with my brother. I and our youngest were close to him.
I want to influence him through stalking in his dream that he should not give up on his dreams despite the words of our relatives to him. He wants to be a policeman or a fireman but his course is far from those two as he was taking business administration. But still, I am always telling him to do his thing as he can still be one of those when he graduates. I want him to fulfill his dreams in life.
Third one (sister)
Of all of my siblings, she's the one that I want to stalk a lot. As I can't decipher her plans in life. Of all my siblings, she's the one who's hard to handle. And I can say the black sheep of the family. She doesn't have a dream of finishing her studies. She was a happy-go-lucky one of the family and was deaf to our parent's advice.
I want to stalk and visit her in her dreams as I have a lot to ask and tell her. Honestly, we were not talking for so long because of what she did to our parents. She did the worst this time. I thought she already changed with the things she did before after we forgave her but we were wrong. Instead, she got worst than even her daughter, who's in my parent's care, she abandoned and never had care. Coz if she does, she won't harm our parents and us.
I want to influence her by shaping her back to her old self. The time that she doesn't have a boyfriend yet. The time that she didn't start fooling our parents. Coz I don't know and can't think of anything that our parents did her wrong. I am still hoping that she can still get back to herself and go back to our parents and asked forgiveness. And also, if she has dreams in life, I do hope she will do things the right way to achieve them. And I want her to change for to better and learned from her mistakes.
Youngest (sister)
Our youngest sister @angge222 has done wrong before but at least she learned from it. I want to stalk her dreams and influenced her but I guess I already did as she's so vocal about me what she wants to do in life. She wants to finish her studies in college but for now, we let our brother first as we are not yet financially stable.
I want to stalk her dreams as I still want to know what she'll do especially now that she's already a mom at the age of 23. Well, I know she'll do everything for her family. She's a fighter and goal-focused. If only were financially stable, for sure she and our brother already graduated.
Closing thought
So, this is my kind of sharing my thoughts and choosing the topic "Dream Stalker" in Weekend Experience by @galenkp, it's my first time joining and I hope I made it right.
I chose this topic coz I want to influence my siblings as there are times that I felt I am far from them. Granted that I'm far from them as I am now living with my husband but I want them to know that even if I am far, they can still open up with me. I don't have problems with its two siblings as they're open to me. All I need to do is guide them with their dreams in life. My only problem is our third one as she doesn't easily listen to me or any people around her. And everyone who advises her felt like her enemy. And it's so hard to approach her.
Anyway, that's all for today. Thank you for reading my post everyone. 🤗
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It's great that u are so close and think of all ur siblings..
I only have 1 older sis, but I can definitely relate to not understanding their thinking or actions sometimes..
That's sad right? But we can't do anything about their thinking as some of siblings or people don't like to be advised 😌
Hays naa joy malahi sa magsuon. Lisod na kung di maminaw sa ginikanan pero sila pod ang pinaka nag need ug love and understanding
Mao lge memsh. Ambot ngano jud na patas ra unta amo ginikanan pero ija ginalahi ug sabot. Haayy
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