This is well written and insightful.
When you can relate known obscurities from members of your own family to the thought of
What will the record show of my parents, a hundred years down the road? What will a curious descendant discover from the bare facts?
It really opens up a lot of different lines of thinking. Historical family records are often sparse and missing a lot of details.
My family has done a bit of research and digging and we've found some pretty cool stuff, photos of a couple or few generations back, some names and dates of birth records but that was pretty much it lol.
Your thoughts here also take mine to a place of thinking how little certain family issues may actually be in the long scheme of things. In the end it usually obscures or disappears as a matter of importance in the lives of others, and all that's left might be a few photos and some old family stories that might only be half accurate at best.
What better reason for families to let go of old feuds or animosities that don't affect current life.
Thanks for sharing your heritage write up with us!
Holding onto hurt and animosity--family or otherwise--what good does it do? No good for the other person, and certainly no good for us.
Thank you so much for reading. What I like about this post is that people seem to relate. We all have a past. Do we let the past weigh us down, or enrich us? Let go of the bad stuff and move forward.
Hope you turn up a pirate (as I did in my search) or some such thing in your family history. Always nice to have a little drama 😇
(I was trying to find a Dick Gregory story to share with you. It was about a man who had a grudge and wouldn't let it go. Couldn't find it)