Thank you for sharing this family tradition with us, @geelocks. It is often said that Christmas is about giving, but sometimes it's hard to give up that part about 'getting'. Your mother is wise. Giving to someone who truly needs is never a wasted gesture. Giving to someone who doesn't need much at all, that can be a less satisfying exercise.
This is a worthwhile seasonal reminder about the spirit of Christmas. We appreciate that you offered this inspiring piece to the community.
Thank you, you are right giving to someone in need is a better satisfying exercise