Sometimes we feel we have alot to tell our friends about whats going on in our relationships,sometimes we want to share the good news and sometimes we have bad news and we just want to get it off our chest to feel better.
But have we thought about how much we got to share to whom because not everybody that claims to care is really intrested.some just want to know whats going on so that they can celebrate your problems.
I am here wondering,how much should we really share with our friends about our relationship?
Over the number of years, I have started only telling what is important. And based on the reaction, I continue.
Generally, I don't enjoy talking unless it is humor. (Or I can find humor)
So I spin this relationship conversation into humor and make an ass out of myself. Only friends I can truly trust gets to know. Rest, never!
Not much in the beginning. Intimate details should stay in the couple. People give advices mostly to feel better about themselves. I would invest the energy in getting to know my partner better rather than trying to scoop information from my friends after I give them some information lol. Only when you are sure the relationship is the real deal and you want a future, then you can reveal a bit. But not all
Depends on how good these so-called "friends" in keeping secrets. And that secrets include your relationship, which I assume so if you don't want a lot of people to know about it except this couple of friends of yours. If they can reveal other's secrets to you, then chances are they can reveal your secrets to others. Even if they are your besties, although I suppose the chance would be smaller.