Haha yeah, I didn't really have the competitive spirit with my brother, not really sure why. I always wanted to follow him and hang out with him and his friends but being the younger one, I was always pushed out lol. I can understand why my son has it with me, as it's natural for a boy to try and challenge his father and overcome him as much as he can. The key is trying to manage it as best we can!
I certainly try to balance competitive with letting him win. Sometimes it's too obvious that I let him win and he gets mad lol so I have to try a little bit. I'm sure he would be surprised his old man is as nimble as he is if I really put the effort in! Haha
I'm the older one, so I find it more fun to make him believe he had a chance of winning only to snatch it up myself at the last minute lol. The management part is what I didn't do well at for the most part, it was just going with what my mood was telling me at that time :)
Definitely lol! He'll think it's time to put it more extended practice on his part to match your efforts.