Hello to all you beautiful Hivers! ❤ I know since long I've been entertaining you all with my truck loads of poems, thought of giving a break to my big fat poetic sense and just hop myself into writing some long paras as its been long.. giggles
I've been having cherishing times since yesterday lately and was wondering to myself.. Everyday in our lives, we meet people, we go through many different actions in our lives. Sometimes whenever we see people doing better than us, we start comparing ourselves, underestimating our own abilities. Which leads to lower self esteem and confidence.
But I wondered it's been so long telling myself
"Damn Gurl.. You've legit come long way ahead, and yet you've not given a pat on your back!"
Well how often do we just sit there for a while and just focus on yourself and forget what's happening in or around the world and just focus on you at least for a moment?
How long has it been that you've been to your favorite cafe, sipping a cup of coffee and munching cookies all by yourself as a token of reward?
How long has it been that you just dance like there's nobody else and just be you... Just you ?
Be grateful for everything.. Every single experiences... Be grateful for facing so many things and you still stayed so damn strong and look where are you now!! Keeping in mind that every single person have been blessed with their own unique abilities which cannot be compared and questioned by none.
People around you may love you or hate you, and this is just part of our lives. It's you only you that can only support you.
Yes it's true these people may have helped you in some aspects of your life but know that they are not meant to be there till the end of your life. In this nutshell, the most important person is you, because it's you according to whose thoughts you act.
I know this pandemic has been a consuming both mentally and physically,
But the actual point is how do we get ourselves to love ourselves?
Loving yourself is not selfish, it's an emotion. It does not mean that you should think about your benefits, it simply means to think about who you really are. To ask yourself who you really are? What are your abilities?
When you realize that everything in life, be it good or worst, attracts a kind of sign which molds us to be a better person or just let us be as we are.
When you learn to truly accept the way you are, you create your own happiness, your own loving environment to flourish in. You'll find your answers to your "Why!?" and you'll start being grateful for every single aspects and purpose of this one life we've been given.
People throw in their own opinions relating to how to live a good life, which kind off makes me wonder what is my own opinion about how I want to live your life, If I've let people take in and splash in their opinions in my bucket.. Yes eating healthy, meditation, sleeping early is all essential and a part of self love but what is the true meaning for living yourself and moments of your life?
I believe to live a good life and most importantly to love yourself, you'd need to accept the way you really are, forgive yourself, cry out your emotions, as its okay to let go, Trust everything what this life splashes upon you as there's a lot to say which would help you mold you to be a better version of you in the future, know that every loss is not exactly a loss, your past does not define you, let go and know to trust life that love it gives you in return.
I'd say take a moment and just try sitting outside your balcony or your lawn by yourself , with some soothing melodious music and just admire the beauty of nature and this life has given us, Play with water, mud, act goofy , just take out your speakers and play that dope karaoke and sing your heart out, live up with that child within you..
Talk to yourself, disconnect yourself from media life and affirm yourself every single day that your worthy and you deserve everything in this world.. You are really Rare✨
As you take baby steps to love yourself fully, be grateful. Love your flaws and look for the best in yourself. As you move ahead in reaching your goals, support yourself love by honoring your body. Eat healthy, sleep early, meditate, go get yourself pampered. Your body is your temple-treat it as such. And in doing this,you will learn more about yourself and less about others opinions about your life, you'll be able to think better, and you'll be more happier and healthier.
Know that your happiness doesn't depend on anyone but yourself, it's hard at first but fruitful in the end, as to why that person just had to leave your life.
But know that when you truly love who you are everything single minute becomes wondrous, and bursts into great abundance and love. Be your biggest priority and I assure you that you will be happier in your own ways in your own bubble of life. ✨❤
Embrace the essence of how important you are ✨ And most importantly smile more often 💛 And live bindass 🙏