In this world full of inequalities, closed doors and walls to overcome on a daily basis, it is easy to become discouraged by the many obstacles littering the path. Therefore, it is common for the INFJ to end up being disappointed and left suffering from constant physical and emotional wear.
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They know how to make friends and keep them, they are close, warm and friendly, simple and good conversationalists. Seen from the outside they can give the impression that they are the classic example of an extrovert, however, the INFJ personality controls moments of sociability very well and limits them in time for a very basic reason.
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