I try not to stress over a lot of stuff I can do nothing about. A lot of people say why don't you do something, yet when you ask them what they come back with "I don't know". If someone needs help, or a country needs help, and they do not ask for help, then they really did not need nor want the help.
I do like a little whine every now and then, but it is a very rare thing, just like the drinking wine.