The thing of marriage is that, so many people want peace and harmony, others look for productivity in every area of life, it's just so unfortunate that most times you can't get all (If you do count your self lucky).
It's true that when we talk about relationship and marriage, everyone has a one sided view which is mostly based on what they want and who they are.
Some men love their wives to be able to manage their business, or any business at all, others want wives who will take care of the home and the kids while they do all the work.
Although right now we have women with a perspective that wouldn't allow them to sit at home after being through the fall walls of the university.
But before we talk about all a woman wants, this question goes to the men, who will you rather have as a wife, an unproductive woman who prefers taking care of the home alone or a woman who is also at the hustling ground with her husband.When we talk about this topic, we are not calling women who prefer to take care of their homes leaving the man to do the work totally unproductive, it just means that their productive energy is focused on building a home with a good moral, social and healthy lifestyle.
Here her productivity will be measured by the outcome of the children especially in today's society with so much vice's.
This on the other hand gives rise to another question, will it be good for the home if all the mother does is take care of the home? Is that what the home truly needs, will a home chooses that lifestyle be able to stand the test of time?What about the very productive woman who turns out to be a nagging perfectionist, it's hard to please her, a woman who's ambition sometimes makes it hard for her to create time for her family following the fact that she's always on the go, wouldn't there be contention between husband and wife, how do you think the children would turn out, having all the money they need but lack love and care from their parents.
As a man what kind of home will you prefer to have sighting this to instances because one thing that cannot be ignored is the fact that a woman's (wife) influence on the home will is what makes the home what ever it turns out to be majorly in the direction of how she supports her husband.
Not to forget, before you judge which is better, understand the essence of productivity is in a goal, so I think the major question is what and what should be looked at in setting a family goal, that way it will be easy for a family To be decisive on what way they which to be productive.
At the end the question is left for you to answer seeing that there are alot of questions to answer already, you can drop your answers in the comments section.
Thanks for reading, #2 loading
Nice write up, looking forward to #2.
I am a woman, but If I were a man, I will definitely marry the Peaceful Woman. No time for nagging and stress
Same here my dear.... Nagging is stressful and on one wants that, not even a woman will like a nagging lady around....
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