unfortunately, life doesn't care about what a person prefers, it just does what it does and we are left to deal with it.
Absolutely! We are left to deal with whatever comes our way, just as we are all dealing with Covid-19. Certyainly, no one can do things for you in your own way. No matter how poor you do it, the feelings always count, and that's the sweet part of taking charge by yourself.
People fear the feeling of failure, so many proxy life to an authority of some kind to make the decisions for them, and protect them from failure. Also, a very convenient scapegoat when things go wrong.
Sure! That's when they regret not doing it themselves.