Some people have a natural talent to console people whilst others find it less easy to express their feelings. Sounds like you may be the later.
For your information, this post would be better suited in communities like Emotions and Feelings, or Friends and Family. The OCD community should only be used when your post does not fit in any other communities. You have been informed about this already on 9th February, and if you keep on disregarding our advice, you will be muted from the OCD community. Thanks