Hello friend @josevas217 you are very right, but I think it has more to do with the education we have been given and that many people want the easy part and not having to make sacrifices to grow independently. I particularly think today that it is better to work for your own than for others, but it is like everything else, it will depend on your circumstances.
Yes, in full agreement, it is necessary for us to make an effort and do our best to be able to depend only on ourselves, otherwise, we will live very limited.
Thanks for commenting @franyeligonzalez