Decisions You That Can Affect Your Life Negatively

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Good day everyone! I'm beginning a new series, titled, Decisions You That Can Affect Your Life Negatively. This series promises to be interesting, educative and informative. If you are in your 20s or early 30s, there are some decisions that could make you have the dream life and some decisions that you will make you have regrets.

I'm here to share with you guys, some decisions which you can affect your life and future negatively. In this article I will telling you guys one decision that can affect your life negatively. Do well to enjoy the read🙂.


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Saying Yes To Everything

If you say Yes to everything, you will most likely regret your life in 10 years time. Saying Yes, is an issue many people are currently facing which is affecting them negatively. I know that saying No, is quite difficult and makes you look like a bad person and heartless person. But it is very necessary you know when to say No, because your life and your future depends on you saying No. Many people have gotten scammed just because they can't say No. "Can I use ATM details, it is very important. Ok, Yes, I will give you." That's how some people get scammed so easily. We all know that giving out our ATM details is totally wrong, because you can easily get scammed just by giving away your ATM details to some bad person. Just because the person has an adorable face, you couldn't say No, and now you have no more savings. It is difficult to say No, but you have to think of yourself and your future before saying Yes to everything.


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For instance, you have an exam tomorrow, and your friends are begging you to come with them for an all night party. Just because you don't want to hurt your friends' feelings, you said Yes and didn't prepare adequately for your exam and then fail your your exams. You can see how saying Yes, can affect your life negatively. Another instance, you don't like a girl, but she likes you and want you to be her husband, because you can't say No, you say Yes and marry her out of pity and end up with a lady that is not your dream for the rest of your life. Understand, I'm trying to tell you to say No, to everything, but you have to think of the effects of saying Yes or No. Will this decision affect me negatively, if Yes, say No but if No, say Yes. Stop saying Yes, to literally everything and you will be glad you start thinking more of yourself, because this decision will affect your life positively.


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Hello @taiwo-writes
Actually a great content that you bring us, it will always be very important to take into account many of the reflections that you share with us, for example, say yes to everything, this is an aspect that we must always place on a scale and balance our decision making.

In certain opportunities it is hard for us to say no but the essential thing is to know that such a decision will not harm us, so we must always have a criterion of balance in our life.

Thank you for sharing such an educational article with all of us. Best regards.

We need to analyze every situation and not saying Yes to every situation that comes our way. Well said @rbalzan. Thanks for reading through

Say yes to everything and you will be setting yourself for ruin. Most people will take advantage and you'll be going against your values and beliefs in no time.nice read

Yeah, very true, many people will take advantage of your nice nature, which might make you go against your beliefs and values. Thanks for reading through @valchiz

Our decision plays an important in role in our life some decisions are good but some are bad for our life. We cannot predict which decision is good for our future. But we need to think before taking decisions and then apply.