I pity people who engage in long-distance relationships, you are dating someone far from you, and you don't know what they are up to unless you call or text them and you have no choice but to believe whatever they say because there is no way to confirm if they are speaking lies or the truth.
People often bond easily with people they can see, while you are trying to make your relationship work online, there is someone closer to your partner where they live and that person would get their attention more and you might even be in the dark... I am totally against long-distance relationships because it is always their word against your instinct and there is no room to get to know each other better, such can be built on lies!
Talk of married ones, One of the worst mistakes a man can make is to travel abroad and leave his wife at home, One thing is that one of them is likely to cheat on the other or both might cheat.
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It is okay to disagree with the point above but based on the gist/news I have heard, seems like 90 percent of married couples that are apart cheat on each other and I do not blame them because Konji does not respect anyone.
There is an area in my state, where most people living there are women whose husbands traveled abroad and you will see those women with other men, money is not their problem because they even pay young guys to be with them, so it is obvious their husband send them money but money is not everything, money only solves one part of their problem, the other one also needs to be taken care of so some of them use the money their husband send to get what they need.
I have seen people who claim they can abstain from sex for a longer period, while some are the opposite of that while we have those who can't do without it for a week because they are so used to it... We need to know our partner before deciding to separate us for a long time.
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I do not like long-distance relationships and it is not just because of sexual desires, I am the kind of person who bonds and gives my attention to those around me, but once someone is far from me, I just withdraw to my fortress of solitude and focus on my work, I am not lonely for being alone but my relationship would suffer because I don't like calls and texting all the time can never be like seeing each other and bonding physically...
I would also miss the benefits of being together, her food especially because I am a foodie, long distance would only make me resort to eating out because most of the time I could be too lazy to cook on my own, am also going to miss her smile and I know about video call but it can never be as staring face into her eyes.
I trust her but I do not trust other guys, we are in a world where guys/men don't care if a lady is married, they still want to have something to do with her, the world is so messed up! so knowing that her partner is not around would only increase the number of men asking her ou. we are humans, and no one is above temptation, I do trust her but anything is possible, there is a 5 percent doubt things could go wrong and this is why I am going to take her to wherever I am going and leave long distance relationship to those who have the heart.
It is also irresponsible to leave wife and kids and travel to another country in search of greener pastures and if the situation of the country leaves you no choice, try to make sure they join you within a year.
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I will always say long distance is really safe and will definitely work out if the four of the people in the relationship agree with each other. Lol
There’s always another party in the relationship and I don’t even think most people disagree, they just have accepted it now.
😂 so damn right, there should be understanding among the four people lol
There are times when some guys intentionally get their girl pregnant before they travel outside the country so that the girl won’t leave them
Now, the plan may be to see after a year that he travelled out but one year may turn to five years…
the girl leaving is not the problem but sharing her with other guys is the problem, as a man you can not expect your woman to abstain from sex for five years, so there is another guy somewhere oiling her when you are away from the country, which is why I don't like the idea of long distance relationship.
Although I am not so experienced when it comes to relationships, I also don't support long-distance relationships. I am surprised to see some people stay abroad for 7/8 years and I think it's injustice to their partner. As you said money is not everything.
yea I dont support partner leaving each other for long to avoid stories that touches the heart.
But I feel long distance relationship still work, it depends on what you set your mind too. You can decide to wait for your husband.
I'm not sure or even if there are men that can abstain from sex I think they are very few.
In our society today women are supposed to remain loyal but the men can do what ever they want.
I don't support that only women should be loyal, both should be but that is difficult especially since it is more difficult to abstain from sex once you have done it before...
But I feel long distance relationship still work, it depends on what you set your mind too. You can decide to wait for your husband.but what if the husband decide not to wait and cheat?
or what if the husband set his mind and decide not to cheat but the wife could not cope and cheated? so it is not about one person, are both ready to be loyal
Okay...
Not only long distance relationship, husband and wife that are leaving together and the husband is still going out to sleep with other girls what will we call that one?
You talk about both people being on the same page and understanding, but when the man leaves will be doing what ever he likes over there and then will try to monitor the woman, suspecting her in every step she takes. That's wired.
but when the man leaves will be doing what ever he likes over there and then will try to monitor the womanthis is why long-distance relationship is bad
husband and wife that are leaving together and the husband is still going out to sleep with other girls what will we call that one?He goes out to cheat. he didn't bring them home, am not trying to encourage cheating here but if they are not living together, the man would be free to cheat openly, bt because the wife is home, he does it outside
Long distance relationships are never safe but the funny thing is that people have gotten used to the cheating that comes with long distance relationships.
There's this couple that I know that are doing the whole long distance thing but still allow each other to keep other partners. At the end of the day, it boils down to what they both want for themselves.
lot of bad things have been normalized in this era
Yeah, right.