He does not like phone calls and video calls but he is so comfortable chat texting people online all day, do not search too long cos he is the one making this post.
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I am someone who loves to be alone most time, it allows me to be able to reflect on my past, and present and also do some calculations about what to expect in the future, sometimes when I am walking on the street, a known person might pass by my side without me noticing the person unless he or she calls me because I am always full of thought... Only those who are close to me know this about me.
I have friends offline and online, but I prefer online friendships. The reason is that physical friendship is so draining. The talks and laughter consume my energy and after we depart, I will need to sleep for hours to regain energy, This is why I have fewer physical friends. Meanwhile, I love online friendships because they allow me to express my inner thoughts without saying a word. The online world is beautiful, you get to connect with others' minds and also find comfort in each other's texts.
It is quite easy to discuss anything ranging from love life, work, and anything you feel like talking about, it does not drain energy cos it is the mind at work and only the fingers are needed to convey your message.
The only disadvantage of online friendship is that people can easily fool you and you won't know, which reminds me of the story of my online best friend.
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It happened on the 2go app in 2012, we met in a group chat and ended up adding each other as friends, we both love chatting so often we chat all day and night, she told me about her personal life, she told me her parents were divorced and she stays with her mum and other sad stories which made me so emotional and that made me even like her more, our friendship is actually one of a kind.
I Never knew she lied to me until 5 years later, when I met one of her family on social media, even though she lied there were some little truths in her words, so the girl I met was her Twinnie but she told me she was her cousin, it was the surname that got me curious and I decided to chat the girl up, but it seems I was the only one in the dark cos her twinnie knows me well, and her reply was that I should wait that I will get to know the truth soon.
That same day, my best friend messaged me apologizing for the lies, that she did not know that our friendship would become that strong, she thought it would be a thing that would last for weeks or months and would fade away but the way it keeps growing, it becomes more difficult for her to change her story because she doesn't want me to feel bad, her sister already told her to tell me the truth before the encounter but she didn't until I find out by myself, but guess what? I was not a bit angry cos I had grown so fond of her and there is nothing she can do that would make me leave her.
We are stil best friends and another beauty of online relationship is that not even distance can separate you!
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I really identify with your story and the way you live relationships... When I was little, 25 years ago, I made friends through letters and, in fact, I still have a friendship from that time, with a guy I never met in person, but we’ve supported each other from afar in our evolution as people... I hope to meet him someday! Thanks for sharing your story... it brought back many memories. ✨🥰
Good to know you can relate to my story, my best friend and I finally met after 8 years that we became friends...you guys can work out a way to meet each other, it is worth it.
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I honestly was waiting to see the part where you guys stopped being friends and I was so surprised when it didn’t happen. I don’t think I’ve ever had such a strong online friendship before. This is beautiful.
oh it was not a bad story, two years later, she introduced me to the hive platform🙂
Yes giving up is not an option.
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Maybe it's the superficial aspect of online friendships that makes me a bit less keen on them. Definitely appreciate the part on talking about different topics, it makes it easier to express yourself and also understand how the other person views the world from a broader perspective.
some online friendships go way deeper than being superficial... some people even find their soulmate online.
For sure, people we resonate with the most aren't always within physical proximity, at least at the beginning lol.
There are so many of us on this bus, no phone calls, just text me I am always online and will respond almost immediately but phone calls always have me thinking.
some people don't know it is easier for them to get a response from us through text than calling😃
I was expecting some dramatic fallout, but y’all still best friends after all those years. That’s rare man, Online friendships can actually be cool sometimes
it is indeed
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Both offline and online o, I don't have that much. It's even gotten worse these days because I have to hustle online and before I finish it's 10pm already. The family must eat now.
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As a man, money must be made, as a family man, we got to double the hustle😂 I can relate man!
Omo, na everything wey dem dey farm for Twitter I dey follow Dem farm, my eyes want to peel.
lol, hopefully, one pays... The market downtrend affect everything
We don't even understand what Trump is doing in the white house again. Small thing pump, after 5 minutes, dump
I am still expecting more dump before the final move, alt season is inevitable
Thats beautiful, me i do prefer physical friendship tho cause it makes me feel more at ease with the person even tho we are not physicaly present, i can still carry that understanding of the person with me...
All the same both are good depending on the kind of personalities involved
it doesnt really matter where the friendship comes from, as long as the person is genuine, so many fake people out there now
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Hello sir, well I also think many of the relationship are working just because of the social media through online and without they people might don't even get a chance to talk with each other.
Most online relationships is filled with lies especially with this kind of world that we are in. Some are still genuine though but hard to find
We have that offline too... we just need to filter and find the genuine ones
I prefer relating with people online, since it does not require much talking, the quietness of staying at a place, and touching the device keyboard is what i like the most.