I learnt this year that expecting a lot from people only leaves you disappointed in the end. I learnt that availing yourself to always be there for them does not oblige them to do the same for you.
When you see people thinking like that, makes you wonder, are they doing that for people, or for themselves?
Sometimes people do certain things having it at the back of their minds that when it's their turn or when they also need help,the people they help would be there to help them. But it's not always the case