Good morning everyone, happy Thursday to you. Being able to make it through the 12 months hasn't been an easy task for me ranging from the good days, the bad days, days I feel like giving up, days I feel like staying strong. Definitely 2023 has taught me a whole lot.
The Year 2023 started perfectly but along the line a whole lot happened which really taught me great lessons. I stepped into 2023 with new resolutions, some I have achieved and some I have not been able to achieve. I actually do not regret most of the decisions I made in 2023 because all the lessons learnt have ultimately shaped me into a better person. Out of the resolutions made for 2023 I was able to achieve three things out of it. I was able to save money to invest in a business, I had an Admission, Restructure our family house making it comfortable for us to stay. The rest I couldn't achieve. I hope to achieve them by 2024.
Everyday brought difficulties, everything seemed too hard. Sometimes I wonder if I would make it to another day, but God's grace made it possible that I made it through to the last month of 2023. In the phase of all this I learned a whole lot.
LESSONS I LEARNT IN 2023.
I learnt that even in difficult times I shouldn't give up.
I should keep moving forward and hoping for the best. I had difficulty footing my bills, feeding was now very difficult, I ran into losses in the business I invested in and I had difficulty in paying my school fees. I felt like I was just going to give up but hope set in. I discovered I was stronger than I thought God gave me the power to survive the difficult times. Which brought me to the understanding that not everything we want in life is meant to happen immediately for us, some we definitely have to wait for it till we are able to get it.
I also learnt this year that I shouldn't always expect much from people
This will help me avoid being disappointed at the end. I try hard to treat people in a good way and not necessarily expect them to treat me the same way.We're all different people with different philosophies and can't expect everyone to think and behave like me. This mindset helped shape me and helped me do things freely for people without expecting anything in return.
I have learnt to put Myself first.
I'm this kind of person who always likes to appreciate people, love them so dearly, take their problems as mine and I forget to love myself and be there for myself. With that most people took my kindness for granted so i had to avoid that by putting myself first, being kind to myself and loving myself
This year i also learnt Forgiveness.
There was once a time i found it difficult to forgive people when they wrong me but this year alot of people stepped on my toes and i saw how easy it was for me to forgive them.
I wouldn't have had great lessons in 2023 if i didn't avail myself to go through this series of teachings because i see it as teachings that helped mould me to become a better person.
Thanks for stopping by my Blog.
I still remain @gloreal.
These are great lessons. Thank you for sharing
Youre welcome
It’s good you’ve learnt how to forgive.
Unlike some of us,tit for tat!
Haha I’m just kidding.
Forgiving people is actually when one the best ways to live a peaceful life.
Have a lovely Christmas.
Hahahhaa yes forgiving is actually peaceful. When one offends and you bear grudge its actually so stressful. Yiu wont be at peace with yourself. Thanks for stopping by. Merry Christmas to you
The best is not to expect anything from them, otherwise you get disappointed all the time.
Definitely.
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Thank you
@gloreal you're most welcome
Your lessons thrill me... I have learnt alot from it
Thank you
You listed some important lessons. I related with the first lesson: even in difficult times, we should never give up. Thanks for sharing.
Youre welcome
I also learned to don't give up even in the hardest situations. Moreover, it is good that you left all expectations which you have associated with people because expectations always result into hurting.
Definitely it is dissapointing to Put your expectation on someone and get hurt.
Waoh what a lesson it good to forgive others when they offend us to just like you I have to improve on that 😀😀🌹
I thank God for you @gloreal
Great lessons indeed.
Youre welcome Love. Good to have you here