There is this old couple i always Come across my area whenever i'm going out sometimes in the evening or at noon or early in the morning either they are going or returning from wherever they are going, for sure i have never seen them apart, always holding holding hands together, this couple probably should be about 65-60 age bracket.
You see the beauty of love is in growing old together, everyday been like the first day, the first moment, your path crossed, that same cute heart warming smile, same heart beat, same beauty, never falling out of love.
You see everyday i passed by those couple i wonder when they started, how long they must have been married, i just smile to myself, this is love, you see most people get started, all rosy beautiful, perfect, those moments nothing in the world matters, the love is so strong, can't stay a sec without the thought of the other
But then days turn weeks and then into months then all of the sweet loving cute amazing personalities all began to fade, turn bitter and turn Soar, so hence the question of IS WORTH IT here's my Honest Opinion.
Most times yes, and here's my reason You see when it comes to the issues of love we allow our emotions to be in the fore front of which these early times every flaws, and character or behaviours are swept under the carpet, Love to me is like when taking an orange, a very juicy orange, after you've sucked the juice all out an probably wants to eat the fibre you sometimes feel some bitterness.
So we allow our emotions cloud our Judgement of this person, sooner or later we discover some acts an behaviours we didn't see from the begining, all these breeds violence hence leads to some toxic relationships we have to day.
When it comes to love its never perfect cause we are all humans with different character and behavioural traits in us, we all have that self will power, Alter ego, a mind to make decisions and choices that speaks to our persons.
But then loving comes and in order to fit in all of these differences into one box it must be a a resolution of together interest no matter what, for the benefit of all.
I have had to ask myself that question a thousands times over, why is it so hard to just true love, these days the demands are just too overwhelming, can't we just find true pure love, like two people that are willing to grow together, invest i each other, help each other in everywhere, now deceit and false lives every where, at the end of the day it hurts so bad to know what you cant feel what you felt for someone or get in return a reciprocation of your love and desires ..
is it really Worth it....
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Not me smiling so much when I read that about the couple. I agree with you. We all aren’t perfect and for these things to work, there’s always the need to put our differences aside and work for what we want.
Very well said, thanks so much dear....