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The way the world is today, it has gotten to a point that it's so easy to get caught up in the affairs of others and sometimes it brings too much unnecessary stress and drama. However, what i have learned this past few months is that learning to mind your business is something that can bring absolute peace and clarity to your life. I've been in various situations where I wished I had just minded my business, gone my way and those experiences I had taught me great lessons.
My experience was so funny. Like anytime I think about it, I sometimes burst out laughing. It happened about this time last year, I once got involved in a close friend's relationship drama, trying to help them solve their issues and get back together again. Instead of even bringing solution to the no problem, I ended up adding more salt and pepper to it. My involvement in the whole matter only led to more chaos and stress for everyone that was involved. There and then I realized that I had overstepped my boundaries and that taught me a lesson about minding my own business. And the funny thing is they got back together and It ended up like I was the one that caused issues.
That particular experience taught me the importance of setting my boundaries and knowing when to intervene and when to let things just go or slide. Because with the experience I had, if only i took my time to study the situation and know when to come or if not to come in at all, then a lot would have been averted. I came to see and learned that sometimes it's good to let people figure things out for themselves, and we interfering can do more harm than good.
Minding your business is very important in the society today. It allows you to be focused on your own life and priorities just to avoid all the unnecessary stress and drama. And then the kind of strong relationships you'll build will be that of boundaries and you'll earn alot of respect. And it will allow you to develop this self-awareness and emotional intelligence.
Note that minding your business does not mean you are being selfish or uncaring it's about being very wise and understanding when to get involved in a persons problem and when to let go. Just prioritize your own life and respect the boundaries of others, and then you can live a more peaceful and fulfilling life without a lot of stress and drama.
Guys let's share your experiences and thoughts onminding your business in the comments below.
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The importance of minding one's business cannot be overemphasized.
Very true
No! No! No! don't ever get involved with two people that are in love
Just learned that lesson
But in a bitter way🥺
A friend once told me; never go in between two people who have seen each other's nakedness oo😅. This kind of thing happens all the time. A couple are beefing, you go in to help but somehow you come out looking like the bad person. Like you are the demon to their relationship, smh😅
Exactly....
That's how I felt
So bad
But lessons learnt though