Keeping to my space has always been my thing,i.e minding my own business but as we know some person's or situations will make you go out of your space either to support,scold or sometimes fight for something because we can't take it no more and at the end we might end up regretting.
I remember while I was in 200lvl I had this close friend, we go to school together as we both leave in Lagos and not too far from each other,we do other things together we even lived together at a time, we had a lot in common as at then and we shared almost everything except private stuff, which means we shared ideas opinions and we know alot about each other, been friends with him was one of the best thing that happened to me while we were in school then. So you can see how closed we were.
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Fast forward to what really happened, before school this my friend Kelly by name as I will be using more of his name, he had a girlfriend who really loved him and he also love her till date but due to distance and as a play boy he broke the play boy code in school by falling in love with another girl in school, I warned him of the danger this new relationship will cause to his already exiting relationship but he said I shouldn't worry that he will take control of it then,since he wasn't listening I let him be knowing when things goes side ways he will definitely come back cry to me so I waited patiently for his return not that I was praying for his new relationship not to work but I just knew it wasn't going to work.
Well along the line he got to find out that his new girlfriend (Tinted) as we called her in school then was engaged before she came to school and that made him furious and very angry but then he didn't want to break up with her because he was already deeply in love with her that he didn't have the courage to end the relationship or will i say he didn't want to end the relationship because he was blinded by love lol. Well he didn't end the relationship and we went home for the semester break then, he had issues with his girlfriend at home and he had to end things not because he really want to end thing or because he did not love her but because he needed excuse to be with Tinted and it struck his girlfriend really hard that she almost committed suicide then all thanks to her late mother(may her soul rest in peace) who came to stop her from drinking the sniper she bought or will I say was about drinking before her mother walked in and stopped her, the news got to me and I was very upset with him for his actions because the girl has really been nice to him and just one mistake he decided to dump her just like that.
Well not long he received a call from a woman claiming she is Tinted mother and that he should leave her daughter alone as her daughter fiance is already threatening to call of the engagement if she doesn't stop talking to him, the pressure was much that he had to call me to help him talk to Tinted and I accepted, umm that was the biggest mistake I made, talking to her was not the problem because I was looking out for a friend and the whole relationship stuff was breaking him down as he couldn't focus on his father's business properly and they were experiencing huge loss.
So I called her and told her to give him space that he is going through a lot and the least he need now is the threats coming from her mother and other factors surrounding him. She agreed and they stopped talk for a while till we resumes school for our last semester where they mysteriously came back together and I was now looking like the enemy in their relationship, she stopped talking to me and started seeing me as enemy of their relationship, the feeling was really off because me and Kelly are always together and when she comes I don't feel comfortable staying around her and same applied to her.
To cut the story short they later broke up without me involving myself and and two months later she got married. But the big challenge still awaits them as they started communicating of recent and her husband asked her to apply in the same school my friend Kelly is attending unknown to him… l just hope their case isn't the one of old firewood never dies.
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A complex web of relationships and drama. It sounds like your friend Kelly got himself into a tangled situation with his girlfriend and another girl, Tinted, while you tried to offer support and guidance. Unfortunately, things got messy, and you ended up being seen as an enemy in their relationship. It's a reminder that getting involved in others' affairs can sometimes backfire, even with the best intentions. Hopefully, all parties have moved on and learned from the experience!
I really hope so...
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