As usual mature outlook! And your already wise. Forgive but not forget…same here…
Well!! … in the example you highlighted before, its good your able to break free, there are many women who can’t leave their husbands if they cheated, betrayed and all that…
Security and financial independence. I understand this because I live in toxic family, meaning they keep you, protect you but don’t trust you and say things that make you feel unworthy which is true also and false also!
I am used to it but that feels like living a lie without dignity and respect.
Leave that aside… I am glad of your approach.
But people besides my family for small mistakes have abandoned me from childhood, for misunderstandinds or feeling that I am just to boring, don’t do much in life etc… or just because of difference of opinion.
My family if they are not bound by bonds of bloods would also have abandoned me like others completely, stay away…she’s unworthy kind! So, I don’t like them atall because they are fake, unauthentic!
So, I guess I also given that treatment of not being forgiven for what I am. That’s made me more toxic in a way I guess, but I stay away from people but not completely.
I suppose forgiving one self, accepting our faults and making peace with reality and working to sharpen our innumerable better qualities take us somewhere.
But I stay away from getting into relationships anyway… even by mistake! Always a loner, but that’s my choice! I don’t get along with human beings, yes I do with some people because I can have good time with them.
So, that’s that. Stay away from toxic people, I too do because even if I am toxic I hate toxic people! Only trust people who you can, based on your experience and knowhow of them. I am sure there are nice people too. Each one his own! Just don’t get too involved with someone whose not been tested… and passed the test of trustworthiness. Because they may do rotten things, can’t be helped!
Good day!
I don’t you need forgiveness from others for being who you are. That’s something I’m never going to do.
The issue of family is a very difficult one but at the end of the day, we are still family I guess.
Sending love and light!❤️
Hey... "I don’t you need forgiveness from others for being who you are. That’s something I’m never going to do."
you don't need forgiveness from others for being who you are." is what you meant I guess(:
THere some sentense mistake.
I always seemed to be seeking forgiveness from the world for who I am.
Yes family is a difficult one, but in my mind, I am divorced from family...no love , only bonds of blood and I don't like it that way... I would like trust, believe and liking and accepting me for me than keeping me because I am blood and fleash!
But thing is love - can also be attachment oriented, (object than real) but it's actually hallow.
Because... well... anyway! thanks for commenting dear!
I hope everything falls in it’s place soon. Some of these things can be tough sometimes. We all deserve love.