They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. But I can’t say that was the situation in the case of our brother @fashtioluwa and his partner , Grace. From what I hear , he was served a hot breakfast some weeks ago but our brother still doesn’t want to accept defeat. Life is fickle , and so is love.
If you know me, you’d know I usually act like a hard girl but I’m such a lover girl on a normal day. I’m always amazed by how love can make one act. Yesterday, I came across a meme which said that to be in love, you must have lost all sense you have. Indeed, love makes us act in all manners. People would go to the end of the world just for love. But oh, I’m talking about the olden days.
Do we even really know what love is in this era? Do we know what real love feels like? Or we make love to be what we think it is. I guess everyone has his own definition of love but generally, I think we would all agree that love is one that doesn’t falter.
I’m no love doctor but it’s more than obvious that I’m not lucky with love and so I’d rather leave it to my friends, @yahuzah and @abenad to enjoy. I’d be cheering them from the sidelines as I’ve taken that as a full time job now.😂
But then, I don’t really know if my dear friends would prefer to be in long distance relationships or not because in Ghana, most people believe that long distance relationships are just a joke. I believe this has to be because of what people have experienced. Most youth are scared to be in long distance relationships because you’d be somewhere thinking your partner is thinking about you day and night when in actual fact, they already have a replacement for you. We’ve heard and seen so many of such cases. This has made most people scared of being in long distance relationships but the funny part is, even those in short distance relationships get cheated on. It’s the same story on both sides.😅
To me, it doesn’t really matter if one is in a short or long distance relationship because I believe that love is trust. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who would constantly have me doubting them. It’s more like you never have peace of mind when you’re away from them because you can’t seem to get yourself to trust them.
With love comes great responsibility. I bet you even partners who stay just houses away have to put in the work to make it work. Though , most of us have been made to believe that long distance relationships require so much effort while short distance relationships do not. Sorry to burst your bubble but they both do. Maybe, that’s why your short distance relationship is not working. Try putting in the work and you’d be back with your testimony.
Being in a relationship is all about being committed. No matter the distance, if you’re both willing to make it work then it would. It’s not only one persons job to make the relationship work. It’s more of a collective effort from both parties. But personally, I don’t think I have a preference between long distance and short distance relationships. You never know where you would find love and so we should be open for anything, including being served breakfast.😂
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Maybe in your next life you will be lucky🤣
I also saw that meme, it’s true
For me like this thank God for poverty because anytime I fall in love I feel like buying car for my man🤣🤣🤣
Dramatic to the core 😂
Hustle o so you will buy him the world 😁
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Maybe, just maybe.😂
You that is walking, you want to buy car for a man. They will stain your white.😂😂
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You really had to start your blog with my story ehnn🙂↔️😏😏 after I have explained for you already.🥲🥲🥲
Anyways, I feel you’re right when you said both long and short require much effort but I believe short distance relationships requires a lot more effort than long cause you both will have to do things to please each other when you see.
Long distance is all about trusting and loving if Konji is taken out of the equation.
I need more lectures sha on love
Who should I invite like this among the love doctors
@abenad or @yahuzah
You go explain Taya.😂😂
Yeah I guess. Short distance is more stressful if you ask me.😂 just let your girlfriend see you walking with another lady. It will be a whole new issue.
Please I’m a child. what is konji?😂😂
Maybe we should invite them both to advise us.😂
😏😏you’re a child? What’s Konji?
I don’t know o
But I’m sure abenad would know sha
😂😂😂hehe
It's your name that made me open the post. I came for gossip 😏😏😏
😂😂 you’re welcome
thank you o 😂
😅😂you this lady
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🤣🤣🤣 hehehe, what role will this be for you? Love cheerer? 😆😆
You are so right. Distance or not in any relationship, it takes two to tango. It takes two people who are willing to be committed and make it work, to actually make it work.
I’ll be the supporter. 😅
It’s unfortunate some people are just in a relationship to pass time.😂 we will be here watching them.
Oh yeah, leave the love to Abena and I. 😂
😂 long distance, short distance, everyone has its wahala 😂. At the end of the day, pray the one you choose works for you before you wake up at night and shout ajei😂
😂😂 at the end of the day everyone will be served breakfast.
Everything was going perfectly well till I got to the end of the post 🤣🤣 we should be open for anything including breakfast, you are very correct anything is possible.
That’s what most people receive, it’s part of the package.😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 package
I feel that until you find someone and both of you figure out what works for you, it will always be a struggle. I can say I’ve been on both sides and each of them has its headaches. Right now de3, I turn expert😂😂.
😂😂I have to book a session asap