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Love in my understanding is having a deep affection for someone or something and as a result of that you tend to like it soo much. Many at times people say that “Like” is what leads to love. But that’s not always the case. You can “love” someone or something without liking it first.
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Do I love conditionally or unconditionally?
Loving conditionally would mean to love with conditions and unconditional love would mean loving without any condition. Observing and placing myself under these two I love unconditionally. Why?? I love you not because of the benefits I get but because I want to. There is no definite reason, but I love you. I don’t always like someone before loving them. I sometimes jut love them enough to sacrifice for them and that’s what it’s all about. Sacrifices.
What kind of love do I think is best?
Conditional love and unconditional love are all love. Most at times people love in one of these two ways because of situations they have been in. But, should that be the case? No! I do not think so. I think unconditional love should be what we all in our heart. There are many reasons why we should love people unconditionally and there are also many reasons why we should not love people unconditionally. But before we choose, we should sit and weight the pros and cons of each and choose the one that suits us best.
I am a person who loves without reasoning and once in, I give it my all. Be it relationship or friendship. I love to make the people around me happy even if I am not. I love to make people smile and for that matter most people say I am funny. I love my friends not because of what they can give me or what I can benefit from them but for who they are inside and out. Reflecting in my life I cannot really say I have received unconditional love. Thinking back, in Junior High School I had a best friend or so I thought but we never heard from each other again. In Senior High School I got another best friend and this time around I thought I had finally gotten a true friend, but that relationship too ended badly. Now I’m currently in the university and I have lots of people close to me but its only one person who I when I observe the relationship can say loves me unconditionally. And that’s enough for me.
If there is a single person among the people you love who can sacrifice for you, that should be enough for you. You do not need a thousand people to show you unconditional love. One alone is enough. Because at the end not everyone appreciates the love you show to them. Let us all continue to show unconditional love to the people around us.
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To love unconditionally is beautiful until your heart is broken or you are betrayed by those you love unconditionally