Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. As humans we all have things that scares us to our bone marrow, things that whenever we come across it send shivers down our spine. There are certain fears that we can comfortably overcome and there some that we have to be dealing with all our lives and might never overcome it, there are so many things I fear but there are some that tops the chart and I really don't see myself overcoming those fears because whenever they cross my mind I am left thinking and I start to feel some kind of tension. There are things that scare us and most of the time they don't need to happen to scare us, just the thought of those things gives us a kind of feeling.
Our fears does not make us weaklins, it is impossible to find anyone on the face of the earth without any weaknesses or fears. We all have our fears and weaknesses, some we can comfortably overcome while some we have to battle with all our lives. I have fears that I battles with growing up and I have been able to overcome them overtime but there are some that have been a problem all my life and is still a problem. I have a cousin who used to be scared of the dark while we were growing up but today she can comfortably stay in the dark and freak out but those days she can crys the moment it goes dark.
Some tears we can comfortably overcome overtime and some we have to battle with for a very long time if not all our life. Fears vary from one Individual to another, some things you are comfortable with scares some people to their narrows. Never make someone feel like what they fear is not worth being feared, their reason for being scared of it is valid and should not be trashed or made to feel less. Even as adults I have come across adults who fear the dark and will run out of the the house if there is no light, they have their reason for that and making them feel like they fear the wrong thing only makes things worse.
I have the fear of being broke hitting me but the fear of losing a loved one hits me harder, I have seen people lose loved ones and lose themselves as well. Losing a loved one cuts really deep and if one is not strong enough they never recover from such a loss, I have seen losing a loved one change people, some people lose a loved one and become drunkards to help them ease the pain, some start to get involved in things they would never do prior to the loss. Only the thoughts of losing a loved one makes me extremely sad, so the fear of losing a loved one is ine thing i fear the most.
This is a fear most of us have, it's not easy to deal with the lost of a love one.
Only the thought of it is scary and can cause mood swings.
Thanks for dropping by GP..
You're right, we all have a fear that we'll are battling with. What can be my fear can be nothing in front of you,vice versa. Before I hate to be in darkness but now am a pro in staying in darkness. So because some people fear something that doesn't mean we should downgrade them because of there fear.
There are some fears we really cannot overcome.
Thanks for stopping by.
I have so many friends and loved ones... I understand the feeling that comes with loosing a loved one