STAYING TOGETHER FOREVER ~ Navigating Love Across Distance

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I've always been careful with my career choice because of the warmth. I admire families that stay together; at least I was able to experience one from my parents. Mom and Dad both stayed together, built together, and are still together.

I really don't know about the foundation of their relationship, but I'm deeply concerned about mine. Each time I get into a romantic moment, this question sometimes crosses my thoughts: What if you were to get into a long-distance relationship? How would you cope?

Yes, it's true no one wishes for a long-distance relationship, but life happens and love doesn't take chances. It's all about the efforts that come from both ankles because in a long-distance relationship, when the girl is the only one going on with consistent communication and the guy doesn't put in any efforts, things tend to take a turn.

But if there's trust and consistent communication, that bond can never be broken. Not at all. I had always wanted to be a marine engineer, but looking at the sight of the work and how much it would take from me, I decided to back out of it. I want to watch my children grow from infants to adults, and that too with my husband, but if life happens and I have to stay away from my husband due to work purposes, then I'll have to compromise.
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In a relationship where there's trust at its peak, I really do not mine. When you build with someone that crosses his heart that it's you till eternity, then distance can't be a barrier. As long as that assurance is there, then it's a deal. One thing that matters most in life is trust; once there's no trust, then there's no room for faithfulness.

It takes a lot of courage to stay faithful because temptation will keep hitting you as though it's a curse, but once the bond of trust, commitment, and love is there, there's no way you'll give in to any temptation.

It's very important to talk regularly in a long-distance relationship; sharing thoughts and feelings openly and listening to my partner is a good way to initiate more closeness to each other. A bond where if we don't talk before going to bed and once we're awake in the morning should not be taken out at all in our daily lives.
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In any relationship I find myself in, I always pray for the grace to carry on till the end because even in long-distance relationships there's also hard times, but sticking together makes it less of a fight. No matter how upset I get, I can never go to bed after getting into an argument with my partner without saying sorry and fixing things. Don't wait till morning; fix it right away.

That's how I keep going as for staying faithful. Once we've already promised each other that staying together forever is the deal, then no matter where we are, no matter the distance, I'll be rest assured that he's mine.

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Communication truly is key. Also both parties would have to make intentional efforts to not let the barrier break the bond.

Exactly 💯.
Thank you for reading.

True, I can also never go to bed knowing very well my partners is mad at me. I could literally blast his phone with calls, lol. So imagine if this person is so far away from me? Hmm!