In life, i do not take anything too serious, I go in a steady pace with whatever I am doing, because, at this point, coupling with the changes that I have witnessed, it has made me to understand that, whatsoever we desire for, we are going to get it, as far as we do not stop walking the road we believe is for us, and this, we can effectively get it with the help of our friends.
I have seen people fight for something's, and I know they did that just to protect their personal interest, I have got involved in a fight also, but I think it was in a very long time ago.
In my teenage age, I remember I always like seeing thing's that was not making a single delay but fast, nevertheless, when friend's fight, to know if they really mean something to themselves, they will get back to the friendship again, anything outside of this, maybe, after a while of quarrel, they go separate ways, it will just show that they was nothing common between the people.
Yet, it all depends on life experiences, because as an adult, we do not really have much time to think about that, so what I do when I understand that I have done something wrong to a person, be it my friend, or whoever i was associating with, is to apologize at the scene, make that person to see reason that I am sorry about what has happened, and then keep living my best life.
A lot of people think I am weak because I do not like issues, but always look for a way to settle it, but I do reason it, because I do not think that to settle difference's make me weak, I believe it is something a person should do, because, I hate it to have those unhealthy mindset, I do not like those kinds of energy's, so instead of me to be thinking of issues for many times, I will rather settle it when it has not gotten to the bottleneck and keep my heart free.
That is why I do not have much friendship that are not working, beside, I keep my circle of friends small and if I really see a person as my friend, he/she is my friend, unless it's the person who do not want to associate or get involved with me.
The deal is, at any time I noticed he/she does not want me around, after maybe, some time's of finding why, and the person let me to understand, I have not done something wrong, but they does not just want me around anymore, I will leave and that will be final, because we do not have to be an headache to a person.
I think that it is all about how we see things, because in this life, I am taking it gently with whatever I do, places i am going, or being to, as i do not see any reason to keep a harsh lifestyle.
I don’t think you’re weak for not wanting issues. In fact that’s something wise people do. You avoid trouble and make sure to settle it when it arises.
That is exactly the way I see it, @abenad thank you for letting me know that I am doing the right thing. Good morning.