Life do not pay people who rush things, when you take time to do something, you will eliminate a lot of mistakes, and as well, build courage and experiences, since the time i learnt this, i have pushed myself away from that angle, and I do not want to go in that direction anymore.
Because, the things we desires for, can only come through sacrifice, I know that i used to had it wrong back then, at any time, i heard of sacrifice. The deal was, that word used to turned me off, and I will began to think of anything gotten from sacrifice isn't a good thing. This was truly lack of understanding, or you can called it ignorance😁
But as I grow up to joined the labour age, this word sacrifice when said, began to have a different meaning, yet, it all depends on our motives, but to get it right, pushing on every day activities, and not giving up on what we do, can be term sacrifice, and a person who keeps to this habit, will benefit wholesomely.
It doesn't matter how long we have to do this, but, I think it will matter's very well, when that good result comes, and then, we will see that we did plant a good seed.
I have realized that a greater number of people, let me say out of %100 percent, 69 lost their positions in life because of rush, and to be very right here, people do not have to be on a haste to nailed stuff's they want in life.
My father always told me that our fingers are not equal, so, if I want to lived a happy life, that I would be proud of, I shouldn't be on a rush to get anything I want, because, once, I thought about something I want, and I push on the way for it, nature has a way of bringing that thing around.
Truth be told, within those period of times, I do listened, but I never really understood what he was saying, untill now that life has been a race that I have to win with good position.
One of my friend, do said it that, "there is no time" but I hardly understand what he mean, because, as long as I know, there is time, and whatever we want, when we have to chase it nonstop, and the winning bell is going to sounds on our name.
So, the first time he came up with that statement, I thought it was because of the alcohol we took at that arena, since people that drink more can say things that are not relevant.
So, the statement slip off, and nobody at the table contribute, I believed that i wasn't the only person who didn't like his statement, but, can we get angry at our friends? No, and even time's we did, we will easily get close again, and live and forget.
Therefore, on the next day, we were together, and that statement of his make me to paused the game we had that evening. my words were, "he shouldn't said a thing like that, because he is still young, and he has every muscle to go for what he wants, and, on due time, he will get it.
It surprised me that he did not understand, and to some point, I find it hard to follow him up, because, I could not get it anymore.
The deal is, hastily do not lands people in good places, living/having a good lifestyle might seems as if it delays, yet, that is the best way to survive.
Image is mine.
To get what you want, you must be willing to make sacrifices.
Exactly as that bro. The things we want comes when we are putting in the best of us, and that is how we are going to get something best from it.