With age, one's preferences are lost one by one.

in HiveGhana7 months ago

All of us have to struggle with life in one way or another every time to survive. Sometimes it seems that life is understood in the name of this struggle and this seems to be the real secret of life. And while breaking through these mysteries, our own life choices are getting lost. I have to keep the likes to myself which I cannot express. Not well but I have to say I'm fine. That's why someone said that the world is like a theater and we are all actors. Maybe I heard it as a child but I didn't understand the weight of the words. As I grow older, when the responsibilities fall on my shoulders from different aspects, I understand the true meaning of this saying. As a child, I dreamed of flying in the sky like a bird. I will travel the world and win many things. I will go around on my own and have a lot of fun with my friends. But with age comes responsibilities, and that's when dear friends and favorite sports and beloved people drift away. Life now means that I have so many responsibilities that I have to fulfill.

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As I got older, I finished school, college and university, and when I entered the working life, the turning point of my life took a turn. Morning sleep, afternoon sports and evening chat have disappeared. Now it's just work and work. Once I went to the Padma river with my friends and caught fish. I bathed in the warm water of the Padma river. I made many sculptures with sand. Whenever I see these scenes somehow I get lost in that childhood again. He wants to go back there again and again but there is no time to go back.

Back in the day we used to save money for tiffin to buy a ball or a bat. I used to save money from the money to buy books, notebooks, and pens, and keep it to buy sports books. And now I can buy a few ball bats at once but those days are gone. No friends, no favorite playground. Even though we have come a long way due to age, time cannot pass like it was then. I did not understand when I left the golden life and stepped into such a boring life. I am busy with work from sunrise to sunset. The free time relaxation thing is lost in this work. Earlier, if I needed something, I would seriously approach my parents, they would fulfill the wish anyway. Then I thought to myself that when I grow up, I will do everything according to my heart, I will keep my wishes alive to fulfill them. Right now, I am earning through my job, but apart from my own desires, now I have to give priority to the desires of others and fulfill them with responsibility. And this is a very big responsibility on the family to survive.
But the abandoned childhood and adolescence call back again and again. When the eyes understand, the golden past floats on the eyes and runs away again and again in that youth. Now those who may be in childhood may not know that they are passing through the most important time of their life. Maybe you will understand when you get over childhood like us. However, as people grow older, their responsibilities increase. As we age, we all have our own desires and dislikes. However, with my little knowledge, I hope you will like it.




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I am Md. Rezaul Karim. My hive account is @rzaul1. I am a Bengali and I am proud to be a Bengali. I love hive a lot. I love reading, writing, blogging, photography, music, recipe die. I love to travel. My biggest strength is that when I get angry with someone I easily forget.



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It’s true, even if you tell a child how important that phase is, they might not even believe you or understand you. It’s just sad that responsibilities engulf us and then sometimes take so much space in our lives

Thank you for the constructive comments.❤️❤️❤️

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