Why do people truly find it difficult to trust others??
Is it because some of their trusts have been broken??
Is it because they don't want others to break their trust??
Either ways it's difficult for people to trust others nowadays
And I'll say it's really not their fault for having difficulties in trusting people. Some people may have trusted friends, lovers, families, colleagues and so on.
Yet, their trust might have been broken by those certain people. Trust they say, is important in relationships, friendship, at work. Trust actually is the most basic part, but then again do you feel like trusting others would turn out good, or maybe bad??
The reason why trusting might be difficult for some people is that, they might be relying on the other person too much. And that is nlt really trust, you can say you trust someone, but actually, you're just relying too much on that person in the name of trust. How would it feel if a person covers you at work and you feel like I'm sure that person would cover meand they don't?? You make up your mind that the person broke your trust, but instead, you were relying on that person.
It mjvht be difficult for some because they did get their trust broken by another person. Yeah well that happens a lot, a man wakes up to meet his best friend and give him a surprise on his birthday, but instead, he meets his best friend and his lover having a great time together. Either they were friends or lovers behind his back, that is a trust broken because he nevee thought he'd see his best friend with her.
Though it might seem difficult to trust someone, and it's really easy to get your trust broken by others. But to avoid that, make sure you know that person and the person knows you. I don't mean you should know little of the person pr start trusting the person after few months. Trust itself will begin to surface when you both have spent the right time together. Or when both of you feel there's no reason to betray the other.