Being kind is very good infact a good heart is priceless. But being kind doesn't mean we shouldn't be able to stand And say No to something we don't like ,an attitude,you do not appreciate. Been kind doesn't mean your life should be dictated to you by someone, didn't mean you should allow anyone into your life, your issues,your personalities. There is a saying that says "A poor man has no choice " I don't know who brought that idea but it was a very wrong statement, why will the poor has no choice,being poor doesn't make anyone accept something that can harm or destroy one.
There was one issue that happened.
The previous house she was before now, there she conceived her last baby now there , she has a neighbor who was also in her early pregnancy ,so, she is two months old than my sis then. Being a very jovial and kind person ,my sis greet her a lot and feel free since they are even in the same situation. They got used to each other, she is always with my sis in her room ,they jist and eat together. One day, she was with her as usual and my sis called her husband to pls get anything he is going to buy for her in two places and her husband did so. When he got back ,my sis carried one to her neighbor and one for herself and they both ate, since then, her husband buys in two whenever coming home. They continued that way and finally her neighbor gave birth ,since she now gave birth ,her husband transfers the treats to the child, everyday. My sister also gave birth and there comes the big shock . My sis noticed her neighbor changes since she has given birth, she no longer visit her often whereas she is just at home but her husband still continues getting stuff for the baby.
To her surprised, there comes a day , after the arrival of her husband, she asked her older son to deliver some snacks to her neighbor's baby. When her son got back,as a child he just made mention that her mummy neighbor thought he was lying when she asked him ,if his mummy has taken out of the things bought for her baby by his dad. My sis was very surprised at the words her son said and asked him to say it Again which he did and that is why my sis comes to collected that the reason behind suddenly reaction has been jealousness that her baby snacks would be cut for her daughter. It was then, she now learnt her lesson that . Everything has a limit, been nice has a limit, she took her kindness for granted And got very obsessed with her possession.
It's a lesson well leant.
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