There are some mistakes some ladies do make during dating stages which I will be making mention of some here
One of the mistakes I will say is ladies depending on your boyfriend to sponsor you in your education. Only if all ladies can reason the way I reason sometimes because he is just your boyfriend,it's like most ladies do not understand the meaning of dating,it's the stages where you spend time with this person in order to study each other behaviors, heart, doings and all. Even if a man is willing to sponsor you for your education,you shouldn't accept if you did not have extra support from your family. He shouldn't be your only hope for that school, his money should be assistance not dependable. Come to think of it ,what if the two of you break up,so you won't be able to continue, it doesn't makes sense at all. I see that as a waste of time and energy.
When I was in a catering school, there was a girl in that shoe, I saw her crying alone in the toilet, I walked to her and asked her what happened,she explained to me that she had been suffering from this guy hand since she started the schooling and she can't leave him bcos he is the one sponsoring him. I was short of words to tell her, I only console her and was hoping if she manage bcos we are almost done then but then a week later, we got a call that she was rushed to the hospital,the guy beat him up again and that's how her parents heard about it and the relationship was broken. She couldn't finish with us despite we have just limited time to complete. Three years gone to a waste.
The second one again is your boyfriend setting up business for you. A friend of my sister once got a shop full of goods , she told us her boyfriend set it up for her. After some weeks , she will call my sister to tell her that her boyfriend came to disgrace her in shop today that she is cheating on him and she knows what he can do bcos he established this for her and can dismantle everything as he wish. Someday, she will say her boyfriend told her not to go to shop this week because his friends his coming over ,so he wants her to be fully home for cookings, my point is that, The guy control her life over the business cos he established it for her. It comes to a day, the guy later went to destroy everything there. Just so annoying. When she accepted the offer, she didn't think about something like this, I was surprised she is complaining, don't you picture this before,surely he will revenge if you try to break up with him na🤷.
The last one I will be mentioning is renting an apartment for you😏😏. He will have 100% access to that house whether you like it or not, the house is his, he will dictate to you who he wants in that house. It's just like you living together, he will come in anytime any day without your consent.
The things you dont know is most guys have this sense of entitlement. The sense I would advise any ladies is you can establish through him, rent house through him, achieve a lot of things through him but he must not know he is responsible for that your achievement. Save up steadily from the money you get from him normal days ,money from shopping and all that can be saved and use for that establishment of yours and he will forever believed you made it out of your own sweat.
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