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I am someone that is very shy. So, growing up ,I don't have friends,those that approaches me for friendship during my school days would later leave me ,cos they realized I do not reciprocate how they mingle with me. Not being rolled with outsider before, when they come to me, I see a lot of their flaws which I do not like or character I feel is not right as have been taught by my parents.
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I only got one friend in school then which I noticed she is very concentrated on her studies and not something else like others, so, we do study together for tests and exams but when i relocated we lost in touch and that is how I became alone again without friend but i was not bothered bcos I was used to it.
As I grow older, I started having male friends, not what you think 😂 ,just friends and what brings about that is when they come to.me for a relationship and I see he is a responsible and polite person,I know am not ready,I do tell them No but I don't want them to feel like am proud or make them feel less of themselves so, I asked if we can just be friends so, they accept. And that's how my friends now are male.
I would have one or two female friends at some point but when I listen to stories about female friends, what are happening between them, I was discouraged, most of them leak out each other secrets when they got into misunderstanding,they date each others guy and a lot of disgusting history while I never experienced with any of my male friends.
No one knows when we are fighting, no shout ,no insult, we just stop talking/chatting and later one of us just called and we ended the fight just like that.
Though sometimes I feel to have a female friend ,cos there are somethings I can't discuss with a male friend but then I later choose my sister to talk to.
Which one do you prefer, male or female friends, why do you prefer and what are your experiences? Pls share your experience , I am in the comments section.
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