Hello friends, good morning
So many things in life makes one lose focus of his/her direction in life, most times this things are not even worth the time and attention.
This days i am trying as much as possible to understand things happening around me, why it happens and what leads to it and i have come to discover most times is because of my carelessness and my inablity to listen to my inner self.
Most times connecting the dots is very difficult so targeting it from the root is the most basic solution to my everyday challenges.

Before i lost my phone, i gave it to my husband for charging and later in the night, we closed from business so it was time to go and we packed and we left trekking to the night.
Before we left inner self told me to ask my husband about my phone but i was claiming to be busy gisting so we gist from the road to the house and immediately we entered the house, i now asked him about my phone and there i knew i have lost my phone because that was when my hubby started searching his trouser pocket looking for phone, when he started searching the bags i already cried regretting why i did not ask him immediately my inner self told me to ask, if i did i would have still have a phone till today, i cried, got angry, scolded him and even shouted, i lost it, so i learnt it the hard way.
I had another instance, i was just passing so my inner mind told to caution a person going about his business against trouble and i refused, i walked passed the person and in few minutes the same person wad in trouble just and my inner mind told me and i regretted it all day.
I don't know how often you chose to listen to your inner self because personally every thing happens when i dont listen and when i listen the case is differen..
Your solution lays within you so look deep down and when looking listen because the answer is coming.
That's awful. But life happens. I have also lost my phone a few times. You learned the hard way, unfortunately, but I'm sure this will make you more conscious, and you will listen to your inner feelings.
Now if I have a feeling and is a no, I stand by it o I don't joke with my inner voice o