There was a guy I was chatting with online. He was very nice and calm from the way he chatted and responded to my chats. Our online conversation continued for months and we became friends.
So one fateful day as we were chatting as usual, he said ** I would love to meet you in person so that we can get to know ourselves better** and I asked him, Are you asking me out on a date?
To which he replied ”yes”. I agreed to go out with him. He picked a date and he sent the venue and time to me. The plan was to meet in a fancy restaurant eat and move to see a movie.
I was enthusiastic about meeting him so I be began to check out what I will wear and make sure it is something catchy.
The day came and I arrived at the restaurant early, dressed in a red dress and feeling confident. I spotted an empty space at the back where I will have a glance of everything happening and sat down. After about twenty minutes, a young handsome guy walked in. I was amazed because what I saw online was totally different from the person I was looking at.
”Hi, I'm Alex and you are Faith right?” I nodded in affirmation.” I hope you did not wait long? By the way, you are looking stunning” .
”Thank you” was my only reply.
We placed our order and began to chat as we waited for the food but the conversation was awkward. Alex seemed more interested in talking about himself than getting to know me.
The food was brought and we continued to chat but I soon became very uncomfortable. Alex's manner was pissing me off but he seemed to be enjoying the fact that I was clearly uncomfortable.
He was just talking about his ex's and how they hurt him. In my mind I was really pissed. He saw it in my expression and he was like ”What is the matter? Are you not enjoying the meal?” but I gave no response and continued eating.
When the bill was brought, he searched his pocket for his wallet. That was when he realized that he had forgotten his wallet at home and me that I hate embarrassment, I quickly handed my debit card to the waiter and the bill was sorted out while Alex felt embarrassed.
As we left the restaurant, Alex suggested we skip the movie for another day and just call it a night since he was not with his wallet or debit card. I agreed but before leaving I told him how I felt about the whole situation and how boring he was on our first date.
I was relieved to get rid of him and could not help but laugh at the absurdity of the situation. ”Well, that was a disaster I said to myself as I walked home”. What if I was not with my debit card? ”What would have happened to me?”
The next day, I received a text from Alex thanking me for helping out when the situation was tough. And telling me whether we can go on another date tonight.
I was shocked. Had not he realized how badly the previous date had gone? I politely declined with the usual ”I'm busy”. As far as I was concerned, that date with him was wrong in all aspects and I'm not putting myself through such again.
Thank you all for reading.
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This guy must be another mugu like the o e I had a wrong date with.
I dislike guys who are too selfishy to the point that they can't see beyond their nose or themselves.
They usually feel like it's all about them mtchewww
Mugu indeed, how can you telling a lady about your ex's on your first date. And you expect to have another date with the lady. Who does that?
I tire oooo😁😁😁
Even if he didn't come with his card, he should have done cash transfer with his phone. I feel he did that intentionally, but good for him, you are out from the relationship already, over his attitude... indeed a bad date
You may be right my dear. Thanks for reading
It's clear he was just looking for someone to listen while he talks nonstop. It's a complete waste of time for me. I won't also want to go for a second date.
Thank you for sharing.
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Yes oooo, he was looking for a chat mate to pour our his frustration and not a date partner. Thank you for reading.
Alex is self-centred and did not consider you during the date. Not having a way to pay was the icing on the cake. At least he thanked you for paying. However, you saw the red flags and do not need any more warnings to avoid him.
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He is really self-centered and am glad am out of the relationship
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