The fact that you informed the wife about your movement made you relaxed not knowing that such a strange act will erupt from her husband. I am glad he later opened the gate for you that night...good thing is that, the experience taught you life lessons regarding communication
Some people just prefer it when you directly give them that respect but I feel that communicating with one's partner should cover for both but it seems different for this man in the picture.
Yes, oo, I never thought I needed to let him know since I have already informed the wife about it. I just assumed that If I were to be a biological son. It might not have been like that. Besides, I got to the house only through my wife. Anyway, I learnt my lesson. Till the next day, I learnt how to relate to people.