A way of dealing with backstabbers

in The City of Neoxian8 months ago

Think about what happened:

I believe every situation teaches us something. This period of time taught me a very great lesson, I learnt a very much lessons about myself, like how I handle fear and friendships. I came to the realization that I should value my very good friends more and be very careful on how I treat them and others. Sometimes, I might make mistakes in judging situations, and what I think is a gut feeling could just be a mistake.

The Most important lesson I learnt is to be confident in my beliefs and not try to change just because I'm afraid of being different.

Upsetting people is something that may likely occur If you want to make a difference and create a change. But that's okay. You should be aware that our goal should not be to make everybody happy, but be able to stick to your purpose in life and make a very good positive difference for as many people as possible. Others might try to bring you down, but you'll always have your own voice.


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Focus on what's important:

When I first learned about the betrayal, I was really upset, but I moved on quickly. There are so many other things to do and goals to reach that I can't let one person's negative actions hold me back.

If you've been betrayed, you might feel really upset. It's okay to feel those emotions and talk about them with friends, but then you should let it go. Life is so big that it has so much more to offer. So why waste time on something small like this?

Why not think and concentrate on your goals, Chanel your energies on good and positive things in life Instead of focusing on the bad stuff.