HIVE REACH OUT, DOUBLE DATING

in Hive Reachout15 days ago

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DOUBLE DATING IS A NO NO FOR ME.
THE STORY OF LEAH AND RACHEL: Jacob loved Rachel but he deceived by the father in law.because on the wedding day the face of the bride was to be covered,so his father in law give Jacob Leah because In their culture first born where to marry first and Leah was the first daughter but Jacob was not aware of the law,so he still stayed back and payed Rachel bride price and he married Rachel but did you know that God was jealous for Leah, because Rachel was loved more than Leah by their husband and he blessed Leah with children and block the womb of Rachel so that Leah can be loved by her husband but still Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah, for years Rachel was childless, until God showed her mercy by reference (Genesis chapter 29-30) I know someone will see relationship is not marriage but it is a road to marriage and when you have missed it in relationships, it's hard to get it right in marriage, and double dating must times is the reason for infidelity in marriage .
Yes it is very possible to be in love with two people at the same time but it's not fair to date two people at the same time because the love can never be equal.self control is virtue.
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Let me explain why I said so because your heart was created for one person not two people, something times double dating can be tempting considering the financial benefit but then how about your peace of mind, sometimes even dating one can be very stressful,if you are genuinely in love with a person you have to create time for him then imagine that they are two like seriously,it has a way of affecting your mental health.
Am sorry to say but even makes you look cheap when they later discover and you will end up losing the two of them, because no one will want to settle for some one who is confused and undefined
If you are dating one person you will be free at anytime and where to post him or her as your partner.
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love is not for babies is for matured minds.

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Nice one, double dating is more like cheating. I wouldn't say God was jealous of Rachel, I would rather put it this way that God wanted to prove a point to Jacob with the blockage of Rachel's womb.

The very important thing is for everyone to be able to differentiate between infatuation from love.

Anyways you look beautiful.

Yes sir I agree with you on that God really wanted to prove a point and he clearly did.so thank you very much for making the points clear

self control is virtue. Thank you. This statement got me thinking. It's indeed a virtue to develop by all.

Thank you very much sir for pointing out a very important point, because in every thing, self control key to a peaceful and successful relationship

Your views are very much insightful!
I'm glad hearing your thoughts!
But sorry!🙏 to say this!
I think making use of "Google docs" will help adjust the punctuations make, and interesting reading!
No offence! @diamond2025

I am always glad to be corrected by you, what are friends,I am glad you corrected me am open to correction dear,and thank you very much for reading

My pleasure!

Double dating is not the best in your life my brother and sister good write top ♥️👍👋👋👋👋👋

Thank you very sir,I really appreciate you for the nice, advice sir,I really appreciate you

Nicely said

Thank you very much sir,I appreciate you

I agreed with everything you wrote until the point you said we are only meant for just one person. That part no apply for people who believe strongly in polygamy

Ok boss, except for those who believe in polygamy, but do you believe in it, like seriously you need to make a lot of money easily in this our generation

I am actually not against polygamy
As long as both party understand the tenets of its operations then y not

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Love is indeed for matured minds. I love the point you made about relationship-it is the pathway to marriage and so if we miss it from the beginning we will have more difficult times in marriage..
Thank for sharing this with us @diamond2025

Thank you very much boss,I really appreciate you for coming around to check up on a friend, it been a pleasure working with you, you really brought out relevant points,I knew it for matured minds when I had to close my eyes and make a choice, nice people are everywhere,so it normally hard to be matured sometime but I think that's the best and thank you for enlighten us the more

When double dating it's a stressed to you out there so I encouraged that it's no allow to be having as such it spoiled a person mind.