Some people say they love their dad more than mum, which one do you prefer..?

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Greetings to everyone here on the hive blockchain platform, it's another day and privilege to share some little idea and memory with each other here. I hope everyone is doing well and great on his/her job out there..?

But am bringing the question to all hive blockchain member and everyone that's a perticipant of this platform that among your dad and mom,who do you prefer most..?
Don't tell me that is both,no i don't mean it that way, we all love our parents yes that's just the fact but among the two there's one that always bring you closer and advise you. And even when they go out for work or coming back from market, they will buy some gifts to share,but your own is more special than the rest
. And they always tell you that keep it so that rest will not know.
Parents are so special and important to our lives that when they are no more, we'll always remember them in their words and characters towards us.
Now for me that ask this question, honestly i can't lie about this and I'm saying this to everyone here on this platform that i prefer my dad more than my mom YES.
If you ask me why, then i will tell you 3 reasons with explanation.
0. I love my dad more than my mom because,that man really cares about me so much like he always do everything possible to see that I'm okay and happy at all means. When i was 7 years old there was one of my aunty who lives in Lafia Nasarawa state she also loves me so much that she told my father, I don't want this boy to continue here in the village we should take him to Akwanga,a town still in that Nassarwa state. Which is just like a big city to us who are in the village. But when my mother had about it,she was mad and upset at my father that no one will take her child outside ooo, that she prefers seeing her children with her always but my aunty told my mother that your son is not going out there to suffer, rather is going out there to school and make you proud somedays. And the person they are taking me to go and stay with is a sister to my father but she has money and she lives in the town there in Akwanga. My parents accepted the decision and that's how i left village to school and stay with the woman. But when i get there she was someone who is into restaurant business,she sell food and drinks and she was just like a mother to me also.
0. My father make sure that evey ending of the month,he will travel down from village to Akwanga to visit me and see how am doing. When coming he will buy stuffs for me and even give me some money which he will tell me not to disclose it to the woman i was staying with, and that's how he continued with me till i finished my school in that house. And the husband to the woman loves me so much that he even pay for me to be learning weldring work, and even when he takes me to work in his farm,he will give me some money and tell me not to let his wife see it. Men were there for me than women, I mean my spirit was connected to men than the women.
0. He bought a phone for me, my father and gave me before leaving that,whenever i have problems i should call him but he warned me not to let anyone see the phone but that was when i was in jss1 because i was in boarding school then. I enjoyed how my father treated me with so much love and passion and i can't let that man down. I always pray to God to give me a big amount of money to shower him with so much care too before leaving this world. I always visit my village December period, which when i arrive at home my mom always quarrel me if i do something wrong which my father takes me like egg he will tell my mom that why shooting on him always,i will talk to him myself. But my mom will get upset the more and tell my dad that this is how you are spoiling this children.
That's why i always see my father like he is the best for me than my mom. I love both of them okay.
Everyone out there reading this post,who do you love most. Dad or mom? I'm here again to ask a question which everyone knows about and if am not mistaken, someone may have asked you the question before. It's a kind of confusing thing when someone stand bodely at your face and say, Among your mom and dad, which one did you prefer most..? If am not lying my teacher in primary school have asked me this question before yes,ask my boss @Ovey10 because we schooled together from primary 1 down to 6 and we were very good friends,i mean closed friends because we used to Play band for school anthem and matching songs and that makes us very close together,aslo member of the boys brigade which i always come to his for us to go out for practices.... So he may have come across this question from our class teacher back then.

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 2 days ago  

Originally our parents have distinct duties to accomplish in our lives, sometimes we may not see them physically doing it but that doesn't mean they're not. Sometimes experiences with both parents can lead to the issue of side-loving one parent over the other but ideally, both parents are to be loved equally by their children just as children are supposed to love both parents equally as well. But then life will always play out and leave us with a decision and reality we have to take or embrace..
Thank you for sharing this with us @glaxxzboi

For me I will say I love the both.

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