Well, checking a partner loyalty is not necessarily childish, buh the method I used was what made the whole thing childish, I would have tested him in a different way instead
Buh, If someone intentionally hurt you and you choose to create distance to maintain peace, that's not keeping malice, I see it as self control or a way to prioritize self care, you were only doing that to maintain peace inorder to avoid excess drama
I think keeping distance is the best way to handle such person or relationship
Thanks for reading through 😊